"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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HB3 Sales Rep and I got **** blocked!

MacAvoy

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Only suggestion I would make is either call her during lunch or after hours and set up something for the next evening. Don't bug her during work hours, she'll be much more receptive in the evening when she's bored all alone in the hotel room.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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RU18QT?

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Thats a good point!! She came to see me around 12 and was here for about 30-45mins so I don't think she has a set "lunch break" so trying to predict when she would be on lunch would be hard. I think what I'll do is give her a call around 5 and see whats up. This is the time most people will be getting off work, if she doesn't already have plans she'll be thinking about what to do with her evening.

Girls like spur of the moment when it works out for them and also this gives her a lot less time to think before I actually see her, that is if she's willing to meet up tonight.

Wish me luck guys!
 
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