HB10 p1ssed off at me dont think im in the wrong though.

[MattS]

Literally this b1tch is a 10. I met her 3 months ago through a friend, weve fvcked multiple times but we are just friends i guess if that now lol. we see each other like every other 2 weeks. I cnat get into details about why shes p1ssed cause it would take to long but it boils down to that she thinks im a d1ck because I dont bow down to her. Shes obviously used to guys that supplicate her to sh1t. So 3 days ago shes liek youre a d1ck seriuolsly blah blah im getting to the point on blowing up on you and I say why? becaues I stand up for myself to you and dont worship the ground you walk on like everyone else? and I was just acting like a c0cky d1ck to her i felt kind of bad but she asked for it. She knew I was right. but she replied and said Im not nice to her anymore. I only say sh1t when she makes stupid demands but thats just the territory with 10s I guess. Anyways that night we fvck then we get in an argument and says im a d1ck and she leaves. i was so fvckin p1ssed i couldnt sleep. Once again it was becasuse i dont worship the ground she walks on and dont jump when she says jump like shes used too.
the next nite she texts me
her: you want to see me tonight?
me: NO
her:cmon
me: i want to but i need to be bymyself
her: if you change ur mind let me know
me: if you change ur mind let me know...u know its ur fault that ur going to lose me.
herk its ur call
me: its ur call
no reply that night

So last night i decide to text her
me:i just wanted to say sorryy for being a d1ck (cause i really was but didnt say anything fvcked up to her just being kind of disrespectful but she asked for it.)
no reply from her for like 3 hours, she usually replies pretty fast.
3 hours later i text her: be mad at me all you want i guess. thats fvcked up. wish you werent but I cant change ur mind. have a good night.
no reply from her.
So now shes p1ssed shes done this like once or twice beofre. I guess I gotta step back and let her chill and shell contact me in a week or so I guess. Let me know if anyone can see if i fvcked up handling this situation. THanks

 

[Kailex]

Literally this b1tch is a 10. I met her 3 months ago through a friend, weve fvcked multiple times but we are just friends i guess if that now lol. we see each other like every other 2 weeks. I cnat get into details about why shes p1ssed cause it would take to long but it boils down to that she thinks im a d1ck because I dont bow down to her. Shes obviously used to guys that supplicate her to sh1t. So 3 days ago shes liek youre a d1ck seriuolsly blah blah im getting to the point on blowing up on you and I say why? becaues I stand up for myself to you and dont worship the ground you walk on like everyone else? and I was just acting like a c0cky d1ck to her i felt kind of bad but she asked for it. She knew I was right. but she replied and said Im not nice to her anymore. I only say sh1t when she makes stupid demands but thats just the territory with 10s I guess. Anyways that night we fvck then we get in an argument and says im a d1ck and she leaves. i was so fvckin p1ssed i couldnt sleep. Once again it was becasuse i dont worship the ground she walks on and dont jump when she says jump like shes used too.
the next nite she texts me
her: you want to see me tonight?
me: NO
her:cmon

You should have just stopped right here and let her simmer.

me: i want to but i need to be bymyself

Whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat?
That's stuff depressed people say.
Next time you say: I have other plans. I'm busy.

ANYTHING but what you said.

her: if you change ur mind let me know
me: if you change ur mind let me know...u know its ur fault that ur going to lose me.
herk its ur call
me: its ur call
no reply that night

Of course she didnt' reply... she probably wasn't even planning on seeing you. Look at her question: Do you want to see me tonight?

She didn't ask if you two could get together. She asked if YOU wanted to see HER. At first you played it off perfectly, and then you ended it up by saying that it was up to her. You got that stuff turned on you in a matter of minutes.

So last night i decide to text her
me:i just wanted to say sorryy for being a d1ck (cause i really was but didnt say anything fvcked up to her just being kind of disrespectful but she asked for it.)

WHYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY?

You just did the one thing you said all the other guys do! You just gave her the validation that if she's pissed about stupid stuff, you're just going to apologize eventually. You should have stuck to your guns and not texted her at all.

no reply from her for like 3 hours, she usually replies pretty fast.
3 hours later i text her: be mad at me all you want i guess. thats fvcked up. wish you werent but I cant change ur mind. have a good night.
no reply from her.

Hey, while you're down there in that hole you dug with your own hands, you mind if I throw you a shovel so you can dig faster?

So now shes p1ssed shes done this like once or twice beofre. I guess I gotta step back and let her chill and shell contact me in a week or so I guess. Let me know if anyone can see if i fvcked up handling this situation. THanks

The original situation is fvcked up because of HER. The way you handled it is fvcked up because of you. Because she was pissed at you... you all of a sudden turn back on 3 months of progress and flush it down the drain? You know what she probably did when you sent that text with an apology... she LAUGHED. She grabbed out a golden box with all of the sets of testicles she's collected over the years and added yours to it. And then that second text you sent 3 hours later? Yeah, she inserted your penis in with the testicles and snapped that mother fvcker SHUT.

Don't contact her again.

Reframe this again to your favor... if that's even possible at this point.

All it takes is one day to fvck up 3 months.

 

[DonJoseCantosie]

Literally this b1tch is a 10. I met her 3 months ago through a friend, weve fvcked multiple times but we are just friends i guess if that now lol. we see each other like every other 2 weeks.

Firstly, are you sure she's a flat out 10? Or is she just VERY Hot? The higher u put her up on the scale, the more its gonna frustrate you lol.

I cnat get into details about why shes p1ssed cause it would take to long but it boils down to that she thinks im a d1ck because I dont bow down to her. Shes obviously used to guys that supplicate her to sh1t. So 3 days ago shes liek youre a d1ck seriuolsly blah blah im getting to the point on blowing up on you and I say why? becaues I stand up for myself to you and dont worship the ground you walk on like everyone else? and I was just acting like a c0cky d1ck to her i felt kind of bad but she asked for it. She knew I was right. but she replied and said Im not nice to her anymore. I only say sh1t when she makes stupid demands but thats just the territory with 10s I guess. Anyways that night we fvck then we get in an argument and says im a d1ck and she leaves. i was so fvckin p1ssed i couldnt sleep. Once again it was becasuse i dont worship the ground she walks on and dont jump when she says jump like shes used too.

I'm proud of you. Unless you were being a flat out *******, then im glad you stood up for your beliefs and didn't supplicate to her. This probably frustrated the living **** out of her to where she's annoyed. When she stormed out, its her way of trying to manipulate you into coming back on the door step begging.

the next nite she texts me
her: you want to see me tonight?
me: NO
her:cmon
me: i want to but i need to be bymyself
her: if you change ur mind let me know
me: if you change ur mind let me know...u know its ur fault that ur going to lose me.
herk its ur call
me: its ur call
no reply that night

Probably could've joked, "Best things come to those who wait "

So last night i decide to text her
me:i just wanted to say sorryy for being a d1ck (cause i really was but didnt say anything fvcked up to her just being kind of disrespectful but she asked for it.)
no reply from her for like 3 hours, she usually replies pretty fast.
3 hours later i text her: be mad at me all you want i guess. thats fvcked up. wish you werent but I cant change ur mind. have a good night.
no reply from her.

Rule 1: If you did not think you were being a ****, Never apologize to a woman! You were not being disrespectful, you held your ground. She might think otherwise now. You should've waited till she texted you again. Now she probably felt "Your in the palm of my hand!" Now when she started to ignore your texts and you replied with that. Its a tactic girls love using to get a guy to chase them more.

So now shes p1ssed shes done this like once or twice beofre. I guess I gotta step back and let her chill and shell contact me in a week or so I guess. Let me know if anyone can see if i fvcked up handling this situation. THanks

Don't consider this a **** up. Consider this a learning experience. Next time, Don't back down or apologize for this. She'll come crawling back when she realizes that your for real. She then probably felt you weren't for real when you decided to apologize to her. Next time, dont' text back and then don't be surprised if she says "Why haven't you texted me?" You can answer with, "You didn't answer to the last thing I asked, so it was up to you to get back in contact."

 

[MattS]

she texted me first asking me if i wanted to see her meaning she wanted to see me. I usually say yes and we meet up but I said no because I was p1ssed at her and she knows why. So when I said no its ur call I was referring to ya you change your attitutude about sh1t we disscussed the night before then well hang out again. but she didnt reply. I say within 1.5 - 2 weeks shell text me again just as long as I dont contact her again. The reason why i texted her a second time was to say hey your mad fine I cant change your mind so when your done being p1ssed let me know. The first text was to say sorry. But you are right that she was getting annoyed that I wasnt obeying her every command

 

[HolyG]

do you realize, MattS, that the reason you're ****ing her is because you're taking her on a rollercoaster ride of emotions?

she loves it when u

1) Piss her off

2) don't act like a wimp

 

[Amazing]

You should have just stopped right here and let her simmer.



Whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat?
That's stuff depressed people say.
Next time you say: I have other plans. I'm busy.

ANYTHING but what you said.



Of course she didnt' reply... she probably wasn't even planning on seeing you. Look at her question: Do you want to see me tonight?

She didn't ask if you two could get together. She asked if YOU wanted to see HER. At first you played it off perfectly, and then you ended it up by saying that it was up to her. You got that stuff turned on you in a matter of minutes.



WHYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY?

You just did the one thing you said all the other guys do! You just gave her the validation that if she's pissed about stupid stuff, you're just going to apologize eventually. You should have stuck to your guns and not texted her at all.



Hey, while you're down there in that hole you dug with your own hands, you mind if I throw you a shovel so you can dig faster?



The original situation is fvcked up because of HER. The way you handled it is fvcked up because of you. Because she was pissed at you... you all of a sudden turn back on 3 months of progress and flush it down the drain? You know what she probably did when you sent that text with an apology... she LAUGHED. She grabbed out a golden box with all of the sets of testicles she's collected over the years and added yours to it. And then that second text you sent 3 hours later? Yeah, she inserted your penis in with the testicles and snapped that mother fvcker SHUT.

Don't contact her again.

Reframe this again to your favor... if that's even possible at this point.

All it takes is one day to fvck up 3 months.

flawless post.


How are you going to change what had gotten you success in one night..just shows you men are insecure as hell and get lost easy when it comes to beautiful women.

Shame.


here is my .02. it is actions + words. if you are teasing her but actions are nice, its one thing. if your actions are you dont call let her come but words are sweet its another. What is the dynamic like here? I honestly want to like the girls i screw, if she is a 10 it doesn't mean i will get doey eyes, im still gonna tease her like i tease every chick - thats that emotions, push pull that gets her going.

are you doing any of that?