"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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HB that lives several floors above me, when's the right time to ask for her #?

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ok i havent thought about DJing this HB8.5 until this thought came across my mind today.

ive ran into her about 5x these past 2 months. or 1 month? i dont remember. but that's quite a lot for running into the same person.

the 4x i run into her is when im walking the dog at night, that's around the time she gets off work i suppose. the 1st time we had a small chat i nthe elevator about if she was new in the building, since i never saw her face, turns out she's been living in this building for a few years or more.

the next 3x i exit through the front door to walk the dog, and she enters as she returns from work. when i see her i greet her with a "hey, how's it going?" with smile.

5x today, i didnt go to work, had an afternoon class. and ran into her once again in the elevator. our chat:

me: hey how's it going?
her: (uh..i dont think she said anything, dont remember)
me: (standing next to her) you got school now?
her: nope, i have work.
(i noticed she was wearing a bookbag after getting out, but it was too late for small talk then(wouldve countered her as to why she's wearing a bookbag if she got no school)
(then another woman from another floor walks into the elevator)
our convo ends.

they exit out, as i am behind them. she took a glance over her shoulder to look at me before exiiting the building (quickie about 1 sec). as we part..

she: bye, take care.
me: yep, thanks, bye.

she seems like the conservative shy type also, and i think she has a pretty high IL in me. so usually if i dont start talking to her, she wont say much or anything!

Since she doesnt know me so well, it would be awkward to kino her if i run into her again. and maybe even MORE awkward to ask for her #.......

guys, you think i should have at least 2 more encounters w/her and have small chat before i go in for #??
to her, im still a practical stranger, well if she does have high IL she might give me the #.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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1: How do you figure she has high IL inn you? What bodylanguage and simular signs is she giving you?

2: Kino etc isn't good with her? WRONG WRONG WRONG!!!!! You see ****y+funny (mainly funny actually) with some light kino is the PERFECT shybreaker!! Whenever I meet a shygirl I'll start busting her immediately (This is mostly because I LOOOOVE seeing shy girls smile and blush, it gives me a commanding rush :p)... And if she seems open to her I'll even start doing light sexual busting (that is throw inn some sexual innuendo etc)... See most shygirls just need to be opened and they blossom like you've NEVER seen!

If you are forward, open, confident and make her feel relaxed, welcome and in a safe environment she'll open up!
 

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this should be a good start

hey bro i woudlnt mind doing the C+F techniques on her, as i said the thought of DJing her came across today.

problem is when we run into each other, we rarely have time to talk. either im walking the dog, she's heading home, or heading to work. so we're pretty much busy when we see each other.
probably asking out to coffee would be the best bet the next time i see her.

i just thought of a good C+F to use when i see her, which will include finding out her name.

it doesnt have to be any fancy coffee place does it?? any regular cafe should do, cause there's one a few blocks from wehre i live.
 

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Doesn't have to be fancy no and if you are walking a dog you can ask her along for it which can be both kozy and romantic!

But anyways, I thought you said ELEVATOR!.... Some fun comments and light playfull touching/hitting and voila you are inn (hopefully ;))
 

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Originally posted by Kineti[C]harm
Doesn't have to be fancy no and if you are walking a dog you can ask her along for it which can be both kozy and romantic!

But anyways, I thought you said ELEVATOR!.... Some fun comments and light playfull touching/hitting and voila you are inn (hopefully ;))
walking the dog together can be romantic....yea sure seeing the dog take a crap and having to pick it up in front of her. (usually i dont pick up the crap) but still!! i walk the dog around 10p.m. thats when she gets home from work and time for her to sleep soon!

elevator, well i live on the 8th floor and that's one f****** fast elevator so no time to do anything.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You are a stranger to her. Does she even know your name? Or you hers?

If I were you, this is what I would do:

1. I would try and create some "bond" between you two next time you see her. Either misinterpret playfully something she does. Eg: you mentioned she carried a bag. Misinterpret something in her bag, say she is a murderer or something.

Or you can tease her about something. Call her a name.

2. Drop her a note in her letter box (note at her door would be too creepy) continuing to tease her about what you have started.

3. Continue your little note dropping for a while. Then go for a get together after about 3 exchanges. You will have to qualify her in your exchanges though...
 
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