"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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hb testing me... and I wanna pass it (hehe)

GrandMaster

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ok guys

here's the deal, with txt messages. I built up quite high interest level.

I told her I was gonna be in her city in a few weeks. Then she asked what the hell I was gonna do in this city. Then I said

I'm gonna see someone who likes me and I like too...

then she wrote back

"Are you really that sure I like you that much?? (ehehe)"

Haven't responded yet, but I know attraction is high, I mean why would she even write that if she weren't attracted. I decided to play it cool and not answer right away. any cool ideas on how to respond to that?

or should I just ignore it and write her about something completely different in a couple of days?

thx for all help

grandmaster
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"if you didn't like me, I wouldn't have you eating out of the palm of my hands, waiting on every word"

anything ****y, after a comment like that, you have to keep laying it on thicker
 

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Originally posted by MacAvoy
"if you didn't like me, I wouldn't have you eating out of the palm of my hands, waiting on every word"
Yeah I like that and I'd answer with something similar. Or maybe something like "The way your knees tremble when you see me is a giveaway" or "For all you know I might be talking about one of my many other special ladies"


By the way, don't take this or any comments like this from a girl as a serious test. It's just being cheeky and you should always roll with it, keep digging at each other (neg hitting) and reacting with c+f, kind of like building a repetoire. I'm not big on c+f or neg hitting as a seduction technique, but they're just a fun way of chatting.
 

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how about

"A sweet way of telling me you like me! That gives you 5 points. Keep on the good work!"

or

"I knew you like me, but I didn't know that you liked me that much that you'd have to tell me in such a SWEET way... (hehe)"

??
 
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