"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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hb testing me... and I wanna pass it (hehe)

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ok guys

here's the deal, with txt messages. I built up quite high interest level.

I told her I was gonna be in her city in a few weeks. Then she asked what the hell I was gonna do in this city. Then I said

I'm gonna see someone who likes me and I like too...

then she wrote back

"Are you really that sure I like you that much?? (ehehe)"

Haven't responded yet, but I know attraction is high, I mean why would she even write that if she weren't attracted. I decided to play it cool and not answer right away. any cool ideas on how to respond to that?

or should I just ignore it and write her about something completely different in a couple of days?

thx for all help

grandmaster
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"if you didn't like me, I wouldn't have you eating out of the palm of my hands, waiting on every word"

anything ****y, after a comment like that, you have to keep laying it on thicker
 

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Originally posted by MacAvoy
"if you didn't like me, I wouldn't have you eating out of the palm of my hands, waiting on every word"
Yeah I like that and I'd answer with something similar. Or maybe something like "The way your knees tremble when you see me is a giveaway" or "For all you know I might be talking about one of my many other special ladies"


By the way, don't take this or any comments like this from a girl as a serious test. It's just being cheeky and you should always roll with it, keep digging at each other (neg hitting) and reacting with c+f, kind of like building a repetoire. I'm not big on c+f or neg hitting as a seduction technique, but they're just a fun way of chatting.
 

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how about

"A sweet way of telling me you like me! That gives you 5 points. Keep on the good work!"

or

"I knew you like me, but I didn't know that you liked me that much that you'd have to tell me in such a SWEET way... (hehe)"

??
 
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