"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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HB says I want to call you Christopher rather than Chris

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Let's say you go by Chris, and this girl you know calls you Chris. Later on, in your first long convo. with her, she says "I'm going to call you Christopher" from now on and with a tone that sounds like a mother addressing a kid. Then she alternates between Chrissy and Christopher. She then tries to decide whether to cal l you Chrissy or Christopher. What's going on? How do you handle this?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Static, whats up with this post? Are you lonely and seek attention?:) I don't care if she calls you Rumpastiltsken!
 
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Originally posted by static
Let's say you go by Chris, and this girl you know calls you Chris. Later on, in your first long convo. with her, she says "I'm going to call you Christopher" from now on and with a tone that sounds like a mother addressing a kid. Then she alternates between Chrissy and Christopher. She then tries to decide whether to cal l you Chrissy or Christopher. What's going on? How do you handle this?
What the...
 
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Originally posted by static
Let's say you go by Chris, and this girl you know calls you Chris. Later on, in your first long convo. with her, she says "I'm going to call you Christopher" from now on and with a tone that sounds like a mother addressing a kid. Then she alternates between Chrissy and Christopher. She then tries to decide whether to cal l you Chrissy or Christopher. What's going on? How do you handle this?
LOL, so would you go by the name of Christopher by any chance? Sounds to me like she wants to give you a more affectionate name instead of "Chris" which is something your mates would call you. Don't worry about it she just wants a pet name for you, if it bugs you call her salty-pu** or something :D
 

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I think she is giving you a neghit. Chrissy sounds girly and Christopher sounds uptight. If she continues tell her she if she insists on calling you Christopher she should call you
lord Christopher. If she insists on calling you Chrissy, sorry dude, your lucks run out there.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Christopher I'd accept. Chrissy I wouldn't answer to.

Actually I wouldn't answer to either, but I'm talking about if I was you. :)
 
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who cares what she calls you. re-naming is a male act. Adam named all of the creatures bought before him including woman.

this site is truely not the same anymore!
 

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do whatever you want, i've known a few buddies who were known by lets say "Chris" by all their friends, but once they got into a serious relationship with thier gf, they became known as "Christopher"


Depends on you. If you like being called Christopher, then who cares. If you hate christopher, then don't go for it.

My one buddy now is known as lets say "christopher" instead of chris. And his gf, well wife now, refuses to answer the phone if you call him Chris.

Once when we were all hanging out years ago, she corrected half of his friends saying, He is not Chris, it's Christopher.

there are many females who do this to CONTROL or to see how far they can control you.

Do what you want, but if you dont like being called christopher, dont go for it then.
 

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It won't matter. Judging by how ridiculously uptight and overly analytical you are about such a subtle thing, you'll probably crash this plane before it leaves the ground. No offense, but if this *really* an issue for you, then it's inevitible that you're going to fvck this thing up.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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This is a direct sign of disrespect.

Chicks should refer to you by the name that you want to be referred to. They might give you a little pet name like honey or studly but anything else is blatant disrespect.

With Chrissy and Christopher, she was giving you a feminized or wussy name. You had to bust her down after that otherwise she would have lost all respect for you.
 

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WHAT THE F_UCK IS WRONG WITH EVERYONE HERE? WHY IS EVERYONE SUCH A FU_CKING PU$SY!!! HAVE YOU LEARNED ABSOLUTELY ANYTHING?!?!?!?!
 
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