Genghis Juan
Senior Don Juan
I think we should do a test. Someone should post a picture of a girl, and other people give her a rating. I bet we would get alot of variations in the ratings from person to person.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.