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HB Morgage broker offering sex for referrals - or was she really joking?

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A hot babe mortgage broker offered to fvck me if I sent her clients.

Currently, the arrangement is I get paid cash for referrals about a quarter point percent (up to $ 1000), but this is what she said lately:

"I'll take you out for breakfast, take you out for dinner, or you can sleep in my house --- pause -- I was just fvcking with you dont worry".

Was she really kidding here, or is there a chance that she meant this?

I masturbated a day before about the thought of asking for sex from hot sexy mortgage brokers for referring clients, in particularly this mortgage broker, and it's like she read my mind or something.

What would you do about this? I'm unsure if this is a bonus on top of the cash payments or an alternate arrangement, or if she really likes me and just subliminated that with that statement. All I can say is wow - that really blew my mind this morning.
 

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Your lack of experience with the opposite sex is really showing here. This woman was being playful with you, and you were wrapped up in the thought that this woman was being serious. It's kinda like a 5hit test, but it's to see if you can be playful with her. If you didn't join in her playfulness, you failed the test.

It's rare that you should take things women say at face value. This is one of those things where you see what she's doing instead of listening to what she's saying.
 

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Desdinova said:
Your lack of experience with the opposite sex is really showing here. This woman was being playful with you, and you were wrapped up in the thought that this woman was being serious. It's kinda like a 5hit test, but it's to see if you can be playful with her. If you didn't join in her playfulness, you failed the test.

It's rare that you should take things women say at face value. This is one of those things where you see what she's doing instead of listening to what she's saying.

Yea, you lost the upper hand already... you're obsessing about it.
Just take a deep breath, and go to the gym and forget about this for a while. Half the battle is won and lost in your head.

Don't let a women get you obsessed, you win the game by making the girl obsessed over you!
Now how you go about that takes practice, but its all a game.
 

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She's a broker, social , flirty types. Don't look into it so much. Seems like a great deal btw. I can imagine such referral offers happening, but never heard of them before. We just refer people for free.
 
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I'll just keep it business to business. Expectation is to get some some of money per referral and to insinuate in any way that the agreed among money is compromisable by anything other than what was agreed might risk it going on some alternate form of compensation. I'd rather get paid and use an escort than see my pay being exchanged for some sexual favour, better value for the dollar. (eg. If I'm paid $ 500, or $ 1000, an escort incall may range $ 80 - $ 120 or up to $ 170.00, they are hot and I can choose from a selection of girls, and it's in and out with no complications - or use the money for something else). I would not lose $ 500 or $ 1000 for a sexual favour or communicate that type of message.
 
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Play the Game said:
Yea, you lost the upper hand already... you're obsessing about it.
Just take a deep breath, and go to the gym and forget about this for a while. Half the battle is won and lost in your head.

Don't let a women get you obsessed, you win the game by making the girl obsessed over you!
Now how you go about that takes practice, but its all a game.
You are right, should just keep this business to business and keep this as masturbation material.
 
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Desdinova said:
Your lack of experience with the opposite sex is really showing here. This woman was being playful with you, and you were wrapped up in the thought that this woman was being serious. It's kinda like a 5hit test, but it's to see if you can be playful with her. If you didn't join in her playfulness, you failed the test.
Or maybe my lack of experience is an asset. If I played along or with her, then it would not be pure business to business. She is a mortgage broker, I'm referring clients for money - for a set amount per referral. That ain't something I'm going to play with. As I said before, better to spend money on escorts then to play with earnings like that.

Desinova said:
It's rare that you should take things women say at face value. This is one of those things where you see what she's doing instead of listening to what she's saying.
Like PAYING ME MONEY - that is what she's going to be doing if she wants to get more referrals.
 

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I'd take the money over sex anytime. Money is way harder to get than sex. In fact, I don't even like perks. I'd take a payrise over perks anytime.
 

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depends on nature of ur interactions so if she keeps giving u all the vibes and **** test then make up ur mind and mack her out....but if she is in ur line of business every day life then i'd suggest u keep it business....
 
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