"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Hb joins Muay thai

Mace

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Hey guys,
recently a HB 9 joined my Muay Thai club.
She is 25, I'm 22 btw. Recognized her es pretty, but that was it. I'm there to fight, not to flirt. But on the weekend I meet her at a big house party. We saw each other and talked for bout 45 minutes.
I didn't drink any alc, but I could see she already had some alc intus. So we talk about our motivations going there und beating the hell out of the boxing sacks. We both like to travel (expecially Thailand) and stuff like that. She is enganging in good kino, rubbing my arms, pushing her Titts at my chest und grabbing my hand fingers in fingers while i gave her high 5. I kinoed back, but nothing to serious. So she tells me she has to fiend one of her friends, but will come back. As I'm leaving anyway I don't really care and say goodbye to her.
Next time at the training I'm talking and joking with my buddies and wait till she initiates chat with me. Superficial stuff like at what time i left etc. She tells me she is in facebook, i write her a short message there, she befriends me and standart crap.
This time i see her at the training, we chat shortly and then it is fighting time. After it is over I take some special guidance concerning some more advanced technics. And she leaves meanwhile.

To make it short, I'm not sure how i should progress. I can't be as aggressive as usual, we are seeing each other at least 2 times a week. A bad relation could be really painful. And I mean it. I didn't ask for her number. Not eager on waiting till the next training, I'm playing with the thought of asking what she has planned for the weekend via facebook. But I'm sceptical that this looks or rather is nerdy. So what do you guys think?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Freddy1

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The problem with girls who joins a Muay Thai gym it seems alot of them end up looking too masculine after awhile. Its not as bad as in other martial arts. I just find women who over work thier upper body too much look unappleaing.

Hoppping she's not the type that over muscularize themselves too much.

Good luck though Bro.
 

Mace

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Update
So I decided to enter new territory and wrote her a message via icq (she gave me her number): "Hey, got bruised and scarred the last time too?"
She was online and added me (being polite my guess), but didn't answer. And went finally offline hehe.
Even I'm not into that online stuff, genius that I am I come to conclude she is not interested :)
 
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