"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
HB girlfriend who tries to control you?
- Thread starter TheLoner
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
plate's_empty
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Purefilth
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This. Or dongslap her into acceptance that you will not be at the end of a leash for her.plate's_empty said:
ALPHA AS FVCK
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
j0504s
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is this is a troll....w/e Filth said do
Drop her. She's Damaged Goods. She will always be insecure and project those insecurities onto you.TheLoner said:
"Back in the day, I had a girlfriend. Turns out she had been molested as a child and I ended up getting the short end of the stick. Super insecure girl who was always accusing me of shit I never did, affecting my sanity. I was angry and frustrated whenever I was out with this girl. Hey, I thought love was supposed to be 'loving and fun'!"
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1902193#post1902193
5string
Master Don Juan
Trust me, it'll be fun.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Mike32ct
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Yep. It's proof you aren't cheating (if there's nobody else in the picture) LOL.plate's_empty said:
But seriously, I would take a bit longer to reply to the texts. Try to weaken her control over you.
Right now, she owns you. That's not cool.