"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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TheLoner

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What do you do, if she is constantly texting me,
if I don't text back right away, she's suspicious.

She always wants to know where I am at all times.

I need some space, but I don't know what to do.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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bittersweet

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She is either a cheater herself most likely, or less likely was burnt a couple times by a guy cheating. Projection.
 

Purefilth

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plate's_empty said:
Send her a pic of your Dong.
This. Or dongslap her into acceptance that you will not be at the end of a leash for her.

ALPHA AS FVCK
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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j0504s

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if this is not a troll...I would stick with the 2/3s rule just give her 2/3s back of what she gives u...take longer to answer her messeges...knowing most guys the second she backs off ur gonna want her more so keep her around dont be a full out **** and blow her off....

is this is a troll....w/e Filth said do :)
 

TheLoner

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any other advice?

I don't want to lose her, but I want my space.
 

vatoloco

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TheLoner said:
I don't want to lose her, but I want my space.
Drop her. She's Damaged Goods. She will always be insecure and project those insecurities onto you.

"Back in the day, I had a girlfriend. Turns out she had been molested as a child and I ended up getting the short end of the stick. Super insecure girl who was always accusing me of shit I never did, affecting my sanity. I was angry and frustrated whenever I was out with this girl. Hey, I thought love was supposed to be 'loving and fun'!"

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1902193#post1902193
 

5string

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I'd take much much longer to answer and really fvck with her hamster.

Trust me, it'll be fun.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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