"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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HB 9, Now in love with me.. i have doubts!

Zeus

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So this chick is in love now, she looks stuning, have her own bussniess ($$$) ;), is polite etc, etc... But i dont feel like i have the same feelings for her, i still love the hunt, i want to pick up some chicks and dont have to feel quilty about it. What u say guys, is it time to "N>XT" ? ;)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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IamtheAlphamale

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Well lets be completely honest here. I understand what your saying about the girl not being a challenge because shes in love with you therefore you feel little interest towards her. Now lets look at this. Basically if anti dump were here he would tell you to go for her I'd guess. I will do the same thing too. Basically shes very interested in you which makes you like her less. Shes also a 9 so thats good. Give her a chance homie.. if you don't you may regret it.
 

RamboCS

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A "stunning" 9 that owns her own bussiness is polite is in love with you and you'd rather pimp it up, basically? If you don't want to hurt her and know you'll continue pimping, I would tell her ASAP. But if I were you I'd probably go for it.
 

IamtheAlphamale

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Well the advantage of having a girl in love with you is you can continue to see other people. Just tell her "I don't want to get serious too quickly so please continue to see whoever you are seeing." This is basically ******** for your gonna keep seeing other people.
 
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