"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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HB 9.5 pick up

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Well last night turned out to be a very good night! Started out drinking at a friends house playing pool. Then went to the bar. Ran into a bunch of people we know and ended up going to a house party after the bar. I seen this girl walk in easily a HB9.5!

After talking to a few people for quite a while I walked over and sat down right beside her. She was sitting in one of those oversized chairs thats made for one person- but can fit two if you squeeze them in there.

I had been watching her a bit as some other guys were hitting on her- and she was not interested at all, so I figured what the hell...

She started complaining about me squishing her and basically she was upset that I was invading her personal space. I told her to relax and that if she didn't like it she could easily get up and leave!

That turned out to be the perfect starting point and we spent the next hour or so arguing and then kissing.

She was the one that initiated the kiss and I just acted like it was no big deal. We kissed a bunch and then I said to her that we are leaving. She asked where and I told her that I was going to my place and she was coming with me. She replied saying "no I'm not" and I laughed and said "f*cking right you are". She gave a shocked look and then just laughed.

So it ended up being a sleepless night back at my place and waking up next a gorgeous girl.

I called her a cab and sent her home. I know I will see her again at the bar so I didn't bother asking for her number and I didn't give her mine.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by damnbugs
I didn't bother asking for her number and I didn't give her mine.
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You gave her your **** though! She should be more than satisfied with that! Beeeeyatch!:crackup:
 
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:D Thanks guys!

Yeah I kept the game up like that all night, told her to get lost that she bugged me. And when she stayed I jokingly asked if she was hard of hearing!-

Then she hit me. Thats when I knew she was really diggin it.

I would be nice for a little bit and then try to piss her off- worked great!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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