"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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HB 9.5 pick up

damnbugs

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Well last night turned out to be a very good night! Started out drinking at a friends house playing pool. Then went to the bar. Ran into a bunch of people we know and ended up going to a house party after the bar. I seen this girl walk in easily a HB9.5!

After talking to a few people for quite a while I walked over and sat down right beside her. She was sitting in one of those oversized chairs thats made for one person- but can fit two if you squeeze them in there.

I had been watching her a bit as some other guys were hitting on her- and she was not interested at all, so I figured what the hell...

She started complaining about me squishing her and basically she was upset that I was invading her personal space. I told her to relax and that if she didn't like it she could easily get up and leave!

That turned out to be the perfect starting point and we spent the next hour or so arguing and then kissing.

She was the one that initiated the kiss and I just acted like it was no big deal. We kissed a bunch and then I said to her that we are leaving. She asked where and I told her that I was going to my place and she was coming with me. She replied saying "no I'm not" and I laughed and said "f*cking right you are". She gave a shocked look and then just laughed.

So it ended up being a sleepless night back at my place and waking up next a gorgeous girl.

I called her a cab and sent her home. I know I will see her again at the bar so I didn't bother asking for her number and I didn't give her mine.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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SamePendo

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Originally posted by damnbugs
I didn't bother asking for her number and I didn't give her mine.
You gave her your **** though! She should be more than satisfied with that! Beeeeyatch!:crackup:
 

damnbugs

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:D Thanks guys!

Yeah I kept the game up like that all night, told her to get lost that she bugged me. And when she stayed I jokingly asked if she was hard of hearing!-

Then she hit me. Thats when I knew she was really diggin it.

I would be nice for a little bit and then try to piss her off- worked great!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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