HB 9-10 Ex-GF???

[big dizzle]

Ok lets get the don't mess with your ex shyt outta the way bc I know thats what I am going to hear first.

Now that that is done here is the problem. I dated this girl for about 5-6 months (longest relationship I ever had... what can I say I am picky) I broke up with her bc I am a bit older and the age difference was a problem for me then. It has been about two years since then. My question is this. Her and her bf just broke up and she knows I am/was interested in being with her again. She has changed alot ( I know this bc I maintaned friendship with her since our relationship ended). Her current relationship ended bc she cheated on her bf. She went to Cancun for a class trip and ended up receiving oral sex. She did tell her bf taht she cheated on him but only told him that she kissed another guy. She asked me for advice and I told her that she needs to be completely honest with her bf bc she owes him that much and needs to reap the consequences no matter what they are. She lied and told him that she kissed someone but did not tell the rest. This is my problem; if she can't be honest with the bf she supposedly cared about I would be stupid to think she would be honest and faithfull with me. Should I give her a chance or say to hell with her? I think to hell with her but I want to hear the opinions of the sosuave community.

Dizz

 

[Luveno]

I'll assume your game is tight.

Do not invest much time in her. Only have her around for sexual gratification - you already know that she is not to be trusted.

 

[CLOONEY]

Is this a serious question? You are going to hear exactly what you expect to hear. You know what you need to do. Nothing! Find another girl!

But then again, we cannot stop you. If you really like her, and she plays you right, you will be chasing her anyways! Unless you have some big man ballz, and that, I am not sure about as I dont know you. But if you game is tight, as the above poster assumed, then you have no need to worry!

 

[belividere]

Read this:
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/

After reading the answer should be simple. If not re-read it.

 

[NewMan]

If his game was tight enough with this chick then he would not be posting.

Since tonight - I am in a mood of reflecting, which has been enhanced with several ****tails I shall embelish some.


Let me ask - is life a simple black and white? - and the answer should be clear.....

I believe there is but a few people who can deal with absolute truths. I am not one - as the majority of people on this board.

This girl at the least, broke up with her BF. That in itself is admirable. But she did not tell him the truth - but really, does the truth matter? What does it serve? to hurt someone else?

She did the RIGHT thing - as opposed to many women who would have fvcked around and not said sh#t.

The question, my friend, that you should ask, is not whether you can trust her - it's whether you wouls like to open yourself up to her a second time or in fact should you?

Can you deal with this knowledge?

Will the knowledge of what she is capable of doing haunt you? Will you obsess over it? worry?

that's something you must ask yourself.

 

[big dizzle]

Just like everyone stated including myself it would be pretty stupid to date this one again. Knowing that she is perfectly capable of lying right to someones face would make it impossible for me to ever believe her again. I lost all my faith and respect for this girl. Its too bad bc not only is she incredibly attractive (let me revamp my rating scale bc in my book as everyones should be no one can attain a 10 rating) about a 8-9 but we have great chemistry. Bring on the hoes bc this one has been nexted!

Dizz