"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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HB 8 w/ a douche??..

Ken785

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so theres this HB 8 that i always sit next to in my history class...ive had an interst in her for awhile now ever since the semester started. i only talked to her once for like a minute after class. she always asks me questions about what were suppose to do n stuff and borrows pieces of paper from me and smiles at me all the time. but the problem is...

i want to talk to her after class when everyone is walking out but she always goes and walks with this ugly douche that sits behind us. im assuming he might be her BF cuz she always looks like shes having a good time when walking with him after class but im thinking if he actually was her BF then shouldnt he be sitting next to her in class? Anyways...at the class banquet today she went and sat next to him again and they left early together and she passed by me and smiled.

she could be just real good friends with him but how do i find out? i know many of you are going to say..."JUST GO TALK TO HER!!" but im saying...

how do i talk to her when she keeps on walking with him after class? i cant talk to her in class cuz it is a very small room with less than 20 students...and everyone is listening to the lecture right when class starts and everyone can hear if you start talking to others....

any ideas??
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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whether or not they're going out, it doesn't sound like this girl is really making herself available at all. You probably ought to forget about her.

If she sits right next to you, tho, you seriously ought to be able to chat a little more than one minute after class. I mean, come on now.

look her up on facebook and see if she's goin' out with that guy
 

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i tried looking her up on myspace and friendster but i only know her first name but its unique..."joey" i dont know if thats how you actually spell it for a girl but to no avail. how do i find out her full name without seeming kinda frraky asking or whatever..
 

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Yeah she is not opening up to you in that way you want. I would AMOG the other guy out given the opportunity, sometimes pickups in classes can be tricky though. Gotta keep your image up, that's the most important thing. In class, whatever you do should be an attempt to elevate your social position. You'll notice all the girls in class checkin you out too ;)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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whats AMOG mean Alphamale Out Game?? i think this is a "nice" chick though...
 

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and how do you suggest i do that?...what would you guys do in this situation?
 

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Talk to the both of them or you could try and befriend the guy.
Yeah, just shutting this guy out is going to be too tough. You're going to have to make some guess about her ("are your from . . .?" "Are you Polish?", something like that). You've got to slip in some short little question the 5 seconds you have.

Then ask "how do you two know eachother". Start talking from there with both of them. Most likely, he's an AFC barnacle that glues himself to her to block other guys while he waits for a chance that never comes. But you never know.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Maybe this ugly douce has got game and he comes to this website where he developed his jedi powers to charm women despite his unfortunate bad luck at birth.

Obviously you see this ugly as easy competition... and yet, you don't have the prize... I would read the DJ bible for starters and start working on your own game.
 
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