HB 8 tested me...But I was ready

[Colinski282]

So i meet this real attractive chick from a long time female friend. So date number 1 we goto the club and she is attached to my hip, my game was strong and after the dancing and drinks she invites me to spend the night, was a real good night. Date number 2 just hung out and it was okay.

But here comes the test! Date number 3 we goto the club again and now as soon as we enter....BAM! acts like she dont know me, actually approaches the guys and talks to em. Talks to every damn man in the club except for me. I referred to my Don Juan info in my memory bank and it let it be and hung out with the guys i was with taking shots and jokin around. I go home after the club and that was that.

She calls me this morning saying she is SOOOO SORRY! Colin im really sorry. My reaction and reply was gonna be graded. I say calmly, "You didnt do any harm. You can talk to all the guys you want to, Your single remember?"

She stopped in her tracks and didnt know what to say....after that she is back on my jock.

Hide your Weakness guys, dont show jealousy it IS a weakness. I take this as a test to see what kinda guy i was. If i was jealous or needy or whatever was going on in her ***** ass head

 

[phatboi408]

Congrats on passing with an A+. I dont have enough experience or knowledge to pass hard tests like you just did.

 

[WhitePimp]

The line "you're single remember?" is brilliant! It instantly creates the feeling in her mind simply through the wording that she thought there was more to the relationship than you did, even if that's not how she or you felt at all. :yes:

 

[d9930380]

Well done!

BTW - What should a guy do if another guy comes over and tries to hit on your girl.

That's the ****ing problem with going out with a good looking girl - taking her out to a club is a ****ing chore. There are so many bloody wankers out there, even ****ing ugly dudes who have NO chance whatsoever.

 

[d9930380]

BTW - Up to now I generally just ignore it because I don't want to be seen to be jealous or if it persists I ask her if he's bothering her and do you want him removed however truthfully and it's not jealousy but anger at his lack of disrespect for me, I really want to rip his head off and shove it up his ass.

 

[amoka]

you're still single. Remember

Excellent respond. Very proud of it.

 

[Fash]

Good job. Next time she pulls something like that, sarge a HB, take her home, f-close her, and the next day when she calls you just say "Sorry babe. Can't right now, HB has just made me breakfast. So hungry! gotta go eat"

 

[jonwon]

So i meet this real attractive chick from a long time female friend. So date number 1 we goto the club and she is attached to my hip, my game was strong and after the dancing and drinks she invites me to spend the night, was a real good night. Date number 2 just hung out and it was okay.

But here comes the test! Date number 3 we goto the club again and now as soon as we enter....BAM! acts like she dont know me, actually approaches the guys and talks to em. Talks to every damn man in the club except for me. I referred to my Don Juan info in my memory bank and it let it be and hung out with the guys i was with taking shots and jokin around. I go home after the club and that was that.

She calls me this morning saying she is SOOOO SORRY! Colin im really sorry. My reaction and reply was gonna be graded. I say calmly, "You didnt do any harm. You can talk to all the guys you want to, Your single remember?"

She stopped in her tracks and didnt know what to say....after that she is back on my jock.

Hide your Weakness guys, dont show jealousy it IS a weakness. I take this as a test to see what kinda guy i was. If i was jealous or needy or whatever was going on in her ***** ass head

A+ sweet

though i prefer fash way better

 

[d9930380]

mr_elor - Sorry mate I don't see it that way, I wouldn't hit on a girl or sleep with a girl who had a bf or husband. It's immoral and disrespectful to the bloke. I have actually turned down girls who have told me they have boyfriends even though I don't know that guy.

For me - if you're going out with the girl, she's your property (and you are her's too). So for me it would be like seeing a nice car and going **** it, if I can break in, start the motor, I have every right to that car.

And BTW - Alot of guys think like me and an attitude like that could get you seriously hurt. And you would deserve it.

 

[d9930380]

Fash - R u serious. Sometimes I think people here just hate women and actually want to just go "**** you" to them all instead of actually getting them.

If you take another girl back after she was JUST flirting, she will dump your ass for being insecure and trying to get back at her.

 

[jonwon]

Fash - R u serious. Sometimes I think people here just hate women and actually want to just go "**** you" to them all instead of actually getting them.

If you take another girl back after she was JUST flirting, she will dump your ass for being insecure and trying to get back at her.

nothing wrong with flirting in front of you!
Man get a grip if i went out with a bird and she flirted i would have either ignored the women, since making a scene is totally pointless or i would have been so annoyed at the lack of respect i would have purposly gamed another girl, probably a fat chick and gone home with her.

Women are different to men, she would most lik;y realized she messed up big style and put it this way if she came back she would not do it again.

Loads of guys i know cheat on there GF tbh about it makes em even more involved when they find out, figure that one out?

Yeh they get piss** but as soon as it is over, if they find out, they think it is something about them and try harder to please.

Or they dump you!

But tbh i would not entertain a chick who flirted with guys if i was together with her, esp' if it was in your face that shi* lacks respect!

a girl i am just fu**ing np at all.

 

[Tomatoes]

For me - if you're going out with the girl, she's your property (and you are her's too). So for me it would be like seeing a nice car and going **** it, if I can break in, start the motor, I have every right to that car.

Woah Woah Woah!!!!!! d9930380.......PROPERTY?????

Unless you are in the slave trade.....Humans....are never property. I can see why you are here with views like this....

Fash.....I completely agree. If she is going to play games with you.....You play back....better...Its not about saying "**** YOU" to a girl because your a hater. Its about her thinking she can pull a sh!t test on you and turning that **** around. I think "Your single, remember" is a VERY good response....love it! She will be back on her leash now.

If a girl is flirting with another guy......I see standing there and doing nothing as a good "Male Sh!t test". Why? Well. If she does stuff with that guy....then she doesnt care for you and you can forget it. If she doesnt make any moves and just flirts.....she into you and just trying to invoke a reponse.


Hate the game....Not the player.

[EDIT] I dont condone any cheating in LTR's. This is strictly when your seeing a girl.

Sarge on!

 

[Fash]

Fash - R u serious. Sometimes I think people here just hate women and actually want to just go "**** you" to them all instead of actually getting them.

If you take another girl back after she was JUST flirting, she will dump your ass for being insecure and trying to get back at her.

Ofcourse I'm serious! There is absolutely NO excuse for that sort of behaviour. If a girl tries that crap on me, I will do exactly that!

When a girl goes out with you and starts "flirting" with every guy in the club, it is just pure disrespect towards you. YOU are the prize, she has to realise that!

So next time it happens, you have two options you can just spend the evening "pretending" you don't care, or take a HB home and f-close while the attention-wh0re carries on flirting with every guy in the club.

I honestly wonder about some of the guys on here and the amount of crap they take from girls.

 

[Tomatoes]

You have to remember Fash.....Some guys on this board still pedistool girls.....Also are not able to pull a girl when and where they want.

A situation like this would defo make me go after as many girls I can that night. I prob wouldnt f-close them that night as that is not being diplomatic (unless she did). I would certainly number close a few times and get some serious grinding on the dance floor. Just to prove a point.....Depends how much you like/care about the girl.

 

[speed dawg]

You have to remember Fash.....Some guys on this board still pedistool girls.....Also are not able to pull a girl when and where they want.

A situation like this would defo make me go after as many girls I can that night. I prob wouldnt f-close them that night as that is not being diplomatic (unless she did). I would certainly number close a few times and get some serious grinding on the dance floor. Just to prove a point.....Depends how much you like/care about the girl.

The thing about this situation is not going after other girls, it's the fact that the girl can't know that you're bothered by the situation, if in fact you are. I would be a little bit, but I'd probably do like the OP.

Kudos to you Colinski, blow your load all over that b1tch's face.....

Question: Why are you taking dates to the club?

 

[d9930380]

I used property to provoke a reaction because it's an issue I feel stronger about. I don't like cheats, either party. What I was really talking about is respect which is what ALL this comes down to.

Hmm - but I see your point about how to react to the flirting. In the past I've just done nothing that night and then "nexted" them as they showed me no respect and not taken them back. I never actually thought that it was a test and that she was only doing it to test me - I just thought "***** - Right you can **** Off" :->

Just out of curiosity then, I was out with this hot girl (but in a group however she had brought friends out and so had I) who later on that night I ended up in bed so I didn't screw things up too badly. Anyway, it wasn't a date and we hadn't kissed yet but I liked her and she liked me - a guy came over and started hitting on her, I asked her if he was bothering her - she said no - he asked who I was and she said that I was her brother. I didn't react, I just smiled at her because I knew she was trying to wind me up and I didn't want to act like a jackass, so therefore I did nothing. Anyway the guy stayed and talked and then left. What should I have done?

 

[d9930380]

Hold on - Some people are saying the important thing is showing your not bothered, other people say that doing nothing is taking **** from her. Some people are saying both.

What's the answer!

BTW - ANY reaction is showing that your bothered. Walking home, showed he was bothered. That's the reason why she felt the need to say sorry.

 

[vp171s]

Hold on - Some people are saying the important thing is showing your not bothered, other people say that doing nothing is taking **** from her. Some people are saying both.

What's the answer!

BTW - ANY reaction is showing that your bothered. Walking home, showed he was bothered. That's the reason why she felt the need to say sorry.

that's because we all think there is only one approach, only one way to say this or that. That is not true. Case are individual, sure they overlap, but you gotta try and see what works. Judging by the guys story, his reaction produced the desired effect, so good for him, but that doesnt mean it will work all the time.

 

[Centaurion]

I think you did pretty well Collin.

The trick is to say that totally non-challent, if you don't that one off you'll come off as bitter.

 

[cant think of a user name]

You did well man, response was gold.

I wonder where chicks get these ****ed up tests from... is it a form of trying to evaluate potential boyfriends, or some crap they read in a magazine...