"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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HB 8 said "Do you like me?" ...

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"Do you like me?" Over the phone. I responded back saying "What makes you think that?" and later on I ask her "do she see me as a friend?" she said yeah, I'm nice, I'm fun to be around, and I can make her laugh really hard. The thing is, she went back w/ her EX. But he treat her like ****, then she kino up with me and even kiss me on the face. Next day, she go back on myspace and tell her ex 'i love you baby!' WTF? lol..

How should I responded to "do you like me?" if she ask me again and deal with this girl next time I see her? Thanks DJ's!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Why would you go and ask her that question? We got an AFC here!
Read the DJ Bible, these are pretty much basics. You appear to be so needy based on the information provided, play it confident.
 
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Don't you see this??? She is a ATTENTION HOR!!! Stay away from her and stop talking to her. You should of learned about this in the DJ Bible. If she asks you if you like her again... Say: "Your alright; but, I got some single girls I like better." Leave it at that and change the subject or walk away.
 
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"Do you like me?"


"I like (very brief pause) some things about you."

Say it like you are responding to an accusation of liking nothing about her.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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xero88 said:
"Do you like me?" Over the phone. I responded back saying "What makes you think that?" [/qoute]
:up: Nice. Somebody just moved into a position of power.

xero88 said:
...and later on I ask her "do she see me as a friend?"
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Damn, you just lost all credibility with her.
xero88 said:
she said yeah, I'm nice,
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Yep, you've lost it.
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you fuked up with the "do she see me as a friend?" makes you sound like you're a loner and got no friends and a virgin.
 
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It's obvious that increasing numbers of absolute morons are coming on here, posting their blather, without having bothered to do even a minimal amount of reading before splattering the board with their idiotic questions. Threads like this should be deleted as soon as they are spotted.
 
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I'm pissed off that I wasted a mouse click to come this bullsh!t thread. Like he said above, at least read before you post. Good God...
 
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