"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"Do you like me?" Over the phone. I responded back saying "What makes you think that?" and later on I ask her "do she see me as a friend?" she said yeah, I'm nice, I'm fun to be around, and I can make her laugh really hard. The thing is, she went back w/ her EX. But he treat her like ****, then she kino up with me and even kiss me on the face. Next day, she go back on myspace and tell her ex 'i love you baby!' WTF? lol..

How should I responded to "do you like me?" if she ask me again and deal with this girl next time I see her? Thanks DJ's!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Axcell

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Why would you go and ask her that question? We got an AFC here!
Read the DJ Bible, these are pretty much basics. You appear to be so needy based on the information provided, play it confident.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Don't you see this??? She is a ATTENTION HOR!!! Stay away from her and stop talking to her. You should of learned about this in the DJ Bible. If she asks you if you like her again... Say: "Your alright; but, I got some single girls I like better." Leave it at that and change the subject or walk away.
 

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"Do you like me?"


"I like (very brief pause) some things about you."

Say it like you are responding to an accusation of liking nothing about her.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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xero88 said:
"Do you like me?" Over the phone. I responded back saying "What makes you think that?" [/qoute]
:up: Nice. Somebody just moved into a position of power.

xero88 said:
...and later on I ask her "do she see me as a friend?"
Damn, you just lost all credibility with her.
xero88 said:
she said yeah, I'm nice,
Yep, you've lost it.
 

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you fuked up with the "do she see me as a friend?" makes you sound like you're a loner and got no friends and a virgin.
 

danielzxc

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It's obvious that increasing numbers of absolute morons are coming on here, posting their blather, without having bothered to do even a minimal amount of reading before splattering the board with their idiotic questions. Threads like this should be deleted as soon as they are spotted.
 

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I'm pissed off that I wasted a mouse click to come this bullsh!t thread. Like he said above, at least read before you post. Good God...
 
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