There is this HB 8, that is in one my class. The catche is that she sit next to her EX-BF. According to some people, she don't really like him that way anymore, but he obviously still into her. He offer her rides everywhere, and always buy her lunch. I want to approach her, but her EX is always around. I got her MSN screename (from a buddy of hers) and I know where she works since I saw her working there once. Is it a smart thing to do, to start working game at her work place or should I just instant message her? I really wanna jump on this asap, since the EX and her broken up for a year. In her myspace it said she single. I asked a friend how come they still hanging out, she told me thats her best guy friend right now, and things are very complicated. Fella, I really need your help on this one. Maybe a detail response? Thanks fellow Dj's!
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The Deacon
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I'm going to assume that you haven't talked to her yet, from your post.
I'd start gaming her in person, and if you're not comfortable with gaming her in front of her ex-boyfriend you should either grab your balls and do it, or, game her while she's at work.
And just cause she's hanging with her ex-boyfriend, it doesn't mean she's not open to new options. He could just be a friend with benefits. Either way, she's not in a committed relationship, so now would be an ideal time to strike. It's almost like she's completely single.
Besides, girls in the 8-10 range tend to frequently date other guys. Don't get intimidated by the fact that there's gonna be competition, or you'll never pull one.
I'd start gaming her in person, and if you're not comfortable with gaming her in front of her ex-boyfriend you should either grab your balls and do it, or, game her while she's at work.
And just cause she's hanging with her ex-boyfriend, it doesn't mean she's not open to new options. He could just be a friend with benefits. Either way, she's not in a committed relationship, so now would be an ideal time to strike. It's almost like she's completely single.
Besides, girls in the 8-10 range tend to frequently date other guys. Don't get intimidated by the fact that there's gonna be competition, or you'll never pull one.
MacAvoy
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Your biggest problem is your putting her on a pedastool and you haven't even talked to her yet. This is evident by your title (can't let this one slip away). You can let all women walk away if you are man enough to be happy with yourself.
You need to change your attitude. A good way to start would be by reading the bible again.
You need to change your attitude. A good way to start would be by reading the bible again.
Its harder then it seems, the class contains 100 people. She usually sit near the exit, with her EX-BF and leave class asap when its over. The seating is 2 by 2. From what I hard the EX-BF is the ultimate AFC, been trying to get back with her for a year already and been buying her lunch, driving her to places, etc. And cant approach a girl, if his life depend on it. Would it be a big mess if I instant message her on MSN messneger first and then her work place? Or should I just go straight to her work place? Also, in a way Im thinking I dont her to hook up with a girl, that is still constantly hanging out with her, hence thats why I haven't approach her yet.
MacAvoy
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Sounds like approach anxiety to me. if you would have used the 3 second rule, this would never have been an issue? Where is the rule that says you can't approach in front of other people? The fact that her b/f is a total AFC, only helps you out.
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Yeah, What MacAvoy said about "Can't let this one slip away" is a bit of a problem, and the whole, 'you got her screen name from someone else, and you know where she works', and all that is kind of a problem too. You're just so much better off face to face in class, like a normal person. And if they are both inseparable, talk to them both. Just be 'their buddy' while you work you way into her sights. Be the DJ while he's AFC, and see what happens.