"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hb 7 is gaming me?

Jetleg

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I matched with this nice looking girl in tinder.

She wanted to meet but she was busy.she didnt counter offer so i deleted her number.

One week later (today)she texts me if i work today, i told her we could meet tomorrow, but she wants to meet today, said she has plans for tomorrow.

Idk if to accept
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Jetleg said:
I matched with this nice looking girl in tinder.

She wanted to meet but she was busy.she didnt counter offer so i deleted her number.

One week later (today)she texts me if i work today, i told her we could meet tomorrow, but she wants to meet today, said she has plans for tomorrow.

Idk if to accept
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She is countering now. Are you busy? If not meet her, escalate with kino and f uck her. Sometimes to many games get in the way. You may win the battle but lose the war.
 
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Jetleg said:
I matched with this nice looking girl in tinder.

She wanted to meet but she was busy.she didnt counter offer so i deleted her number.

One week later (today)she texts me if i work today, i told her we could meet tomorrow, but she wants to meet today, said she has plans for tomorrow.

Idk if to accept
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What would a man that has plenty of options and an active social live do in this situation......

 
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