"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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HB 7.5 / Jealous EX-BF trying to 'WIN' her back.

xero88

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Hi fella,

I been talking to this one girl for almost a week. I call her up every other day. We have a good conversation going on. The thing is she just broke up with her boyfriend a month ago. They been going out for almost three years. She treated her like crap, now wants her back. Trying to "win" her back, and this guy is those guy that get jealous easily. He didn't allow her to hang out with any guy when they were going out, and he have anger problems. The thing is I'm not sure should I continue to go afer this chick, because I dont want her EX to hunt me down like a bear. How should I go from here?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Obsidian

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You've been calling this girl once a day for 5-6 days? You fool. Read the damn Bible, n00b. Phones are for women. Be a man.
 

KontrollerX

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Face him on the field of combat.

Your spear.

His.

For death and glory.

To victory!

Seriously though don't ya know that all chicks with ex boyfriends the story goes he treated me like crap blah blah blah.

Unless you see a black eye and bruises or have a police report or confrontation with this guy confirming her story its all possible hearsay or manipulative rescue me from the bad man garbage.

Do what Obsidian said and may your erections be thick, your spirit humble and your game tight.

Farewell.
 

Obsidian

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ok, I misread, but once every two days is still pretty weak. Make her miss the sound of your voice. AND MEET WITH HER IN PERSON. Don't be her girlfriend, man.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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