"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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HB’s Interest’s

zerocelcius

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I get an e-mail from hot-or-not telling me all the girls in my area every two weeks are so. I usually see what kind of girls they send me, and the top 5 usually aren’t bad. Something hit me and I thought I would see what kind of crap they said they were into.

Here is what I found (wasn't surprised, but I am sure there are some guys here that never thought sex was going to be #1)

*If nothing else it might help some of you that keep asking "What should we do on the first date*

Adventures*
Alcohol
Art*
Asian Food
Astrology
Beach******
Bi*
Bikes*
Blue Collar
Boy Friend
Camping*
Cars***
Chocolate**
Christian**
Clubs****
Compassionate
Dance*******
Dating
Dinner*
Drinks***
Empathetic
Food*
Flowers*
Hip Hop**
Hockey*
Hugs****
Humor**
Ice Cream*
Kind
Kisses***
Lingerie
Line Dance
Lips
Masculine
Military
Movies**
Music**
Mud Wrestling
NASCAR
Outdoors***
Para-Sailing
Party***
Pets*
Photography
Psychology
Rock*
Rollerblading*
Sensual
Sex********
Shopping**
Silly
Skiing
Snowboarding***
Sports****
Strawberries*
Sugar
Surfing
Sushi**
Swimming**
Swing Dancing*
Tan*
Touching
Traveling**
TV
Wild
4:20*

As you can see sex is #1 and Dancing is #2.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Gee, I thought fore sure video games would rank in the top 5 :rolleyes:
 

zerocelcius

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What’s funny about this is how girls talk so much, but the most important stuff is what they don't say. DO you see how they all said sex, but there are only one for masculine and boyfriend.

The most important stuff is the stuff girls don't say. When they say sex they imply their requirements with the word. When guys say sex we mean any kind of sex we can get, but not with girls.

Take a note of what were the fallowing interests. Dancing, Beach, Kissing/Hugging/intimate, Sports.

Here is the equation. Sex=Guy+Dancing, Beach, Kissing/Hugging/Intimate
Guy=Masculine/Real Man/a DON JUAN/etc.

Damn woman-ese but it really isn't that hard to get. We all knew it already. Hell pook has screamed it off of the mountain top along with many others on here.
 

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good point, zerocelcius. Hors want a pimp, not a wimp.


As far as dancing, goes, I'll agree that dancing can be a good date idea. Considering the huge percentage of girls who claim they can't dance, tho, the idea isn't full-proof. I remember that in high school I had to ask 9 different girls before I could get a prom date...

If you tell them beforehand that there will be dance lessons, it makes it a much better idea (and more useful/fun). If you can find a swing or salsa night which claims it will teach lessons for the first hour, invite a girl and make sure to show up in time for the lessons.

If it's just a club/grinding scene, then yes it can work, but mainly with the more horish and outgoing variety -- as I found out in high school. (A couple of the girls I asked claimed they weren't going at all to the prom, and they didn't. A third one claimed she wasn't going but actually did.)
 

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There is a place like that in TN. Nashville has a good one. It is called Ibiza (which is funny cause they don't play Techno...hmmm...But Ibiza is part of Spain...and they do play Spanish music...ok it's not funny)

They do Salsa lessons for an hour I believe before the club's actual hours.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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