"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I get an e-mail from hot-or-not telling me all the girls in my area every two weeks are so. I usually see what kind of girls they send me, and the top 5 usually aren’t bad. Something hit me and I thought I would see what kind of crap they said they were into.

Here is what I found (wasn't surprised, but I am sure there are some guys here that never thought sex was going to be #1)

*If nothing else it might help some of you that keep asking "What should we do on the first date*

Adventures*
Alcohol
Art*
Asian Food
Astrology
Beach******
Bi*
Bikes*
Blue Collar
Boy Friend
Camping*
Cars***
Chocolate**
Christian**
Clubs****
Compassionate
Dance*******
Dating
Dinner*
Drinks***
Empathetic
Food*
Flowers*
Hip Hop**
Hockey*
Hugs****
Humor**
Ice Cream*
Kind
Kisses***
Lingerie
Line Dance
Lips
Masculine
Military
Movies**
Music**
Mud Wrestling
NASCAR
Outdoors***
Para-Sailing
Party***
Pets*
Photography
Psychology
Rock*
Rollerblading*
Sensual
Sex********
Shopping**
Silly
Skiing
Snowboarding***
Sports****
Strawberries*
Sugar
Surfing
Sushi**
Swimming**
Swing Dancing*
Tan*
Touching
Traveling**
TV
Wild
4:20*

As you can see sex is #1 and Dancing is #2.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Gee, I thought fore sure video games would rank in the top 5 :rolleyes:
 

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What’s funny about this is how girls talk so much, but the most important stuff is what they don't say. DO you see how they all said sex, but there are only one for masculine and boyfriend.

The most important stuff is the stuff girls don't say. When they say sex they imply their requirements with the word. When guys say sex we mean any kind of sex we can get, but not with girls.

Take a note of what were the fallowing interests. Dancing, Beach, Kissing/Hugging/intimate, Sports.

Here is the equation. Sex=Guy+Dancing, Beach, Kissing/Hugging/Intimate
Guy=Masculine/Real Man/a DON JUAN/etc.

Damn woman-ese but it really isn't that hard to get. We all knew it already. Hell pook has screamed it off of the mountain top along with many others on here.
 

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good point, zerocelcius. Hors want a pimp, not a wimp.


As far as dancing, goes, I'll agree that dancing can be a good date idea. Considering the huge percentage of girls who claim they can't dance, tho, the idea isn't full-proof. I remember that in high school I had to ask 9 different girls before I could get a prom date...

If you tell them beforehand that there will be dance lessons, it makes it a much better idea (and more useful/fun). If you can find a swing or salsa night which claims it will teach lessons for the first hour, invite a girl and make sure to show up in time for the lessons.

If it's just a club/grinding scene, then yes it can work, but mainly with the more horish and outgoing variety -- as I found out in high school. (A couple of the girls I asked claimed they weren't going at all to the prom, and they didn't. A third one claimed she wasn't going but actually did.)
 

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There is a place like that in TN. Nashville has a good one. It is called Ibiza (which is funny cause they don't play Techno...hmmm...But Ibiza is part of Spain...and they do play Spanish music...ok it's not funny)

They do Salsa lessons for an hour I believe before the club's actual hours.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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