"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Hawaiian DJ's or ppl who've been to hawaii speak up

jbbrain

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Hey guys,

Ill be in Hawaii starting august 1st for 3 weeks..what kind of things can I expect?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Unbridled_1

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The women are way better looking in Montreal, I'd rather stay there.
 

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Hey man, you are in Hawaii... who cares. Get some some sun (not too much your first day, LOL) and kick back with a few drinks, you know with those fancy umbrelllas. If you can score some hula girls then great. But I would think more about all the sites to see and beaches.. It is absolutely gorgeous there. I stayed at Diamond Point or Head, can't remember but I relaxed and had so many spa treatments I was numb by the end. Also worked on my tan. And went on some great tours in the mountains. Gosh what an absolutely gorgeous place to be.

Have fun. Wish I was going there!
 

jbbrain

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ohhhhh man, I know!

The girls in Montreal are great. I can't believe this will be my 2nd summe rin a row where I'm missing out (because b4 going to Hawaii, I'll be working in Vancouver for 2 months..I can't wait for Hawaii, it's the girls out west that have me worried :rolleyes:)

Anyways, any more tips or just ideas about honolulu or Oahu in general are definitely invited.
 

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Dude if your in Honalulu there are chicks everywhere on the beach(Waikiki). Most of them are tourists just there to have fun. Some may be willing to have a fling and others just want to soak up the atmosphere so basically its all a crapshoot. I would just go and have fun and if you see a girl that catches your eye approach.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I went during spring break of this year... Best fun I've ever had. I spent a week on Oahu. First piece of advice? Rent a jeep wrangler, put the top down, remove the doors and tour that island like magnum P.I.!!! Wow that was a good time! The girls? Eh, who really cares when you're in Hawaii?? I can tell you this, if you're looking for women, you'd better like japanese women...

hahaha... Make sure you get surfing lessons... Good times, really! Oh, and one more thing. DON'T WORRY ABOUT SPENDING MONEY!!! You'll enjoy yourself a hell of a lot more.

- Trigger -
 

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I just got back from Honolulu a few weeks ago. You will definitely see some of the finest women on the planet there. Most women there are vacationing and seem to be with a group.

I found it very helpful to have a wingman while in Hawaii since so many of the women were with other women. Because of this, it was a challenge for me to pick anyone up the first couple of days before some buddies of mine showed up. Then it became a lot more fun so I hope you will have a buddy with you.

If you are visting Oahu, you have to go to Dukes. It is a cool bar and Grill right of off the beach in downtown Honolulu. Lots of HBs and once you are finished there, you can just walk right onto the beach for more hbs. At night, go to Zanzabar's. It's a cool night club not far from Dukes. I can't describe the honeys that come into that place.
You can also simply walk the streets of downtown honolulu and you will catch whiplash from the hordes of women walking the street.

Hey, man, you can't go wrong in Hawaii.

Have fun. Hawaii is the s#it!

Mizer
 
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I used to live in hawaii for almost a year...but i was on the Big Island of Kona..the one with the volcanoe..

Which isnt to say their isnt fun things to do their..if you got the dough for a few inter island flights...which cost around 60-70 bucks..check it out.

There is an active volcanoe you can check out..the lava is still flowing and it cools in the sea and thats what makes the island bigger...theres a rainforest like valley with black sand beaches and wild horses and sh*t...and theres a lot of beaches that you can only get to if you hike their and they are amazing...


BUT..

For the @ss..you gotta check out Oahu and Maui..more touristy. meaning more tanned HB's for you to PU.

Anyways..you really cant go wrong in whatever you do there...so have a blast!
 

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Wow let me tell you, Hawaii is simply the best place for the laides. Im livin in Chicago right now, and every year when i go to Maui you meet the most amazing women. The hookups you can have simply because the setting is so romatic is unbelievable. Since the whole place is just a romantic fairytale waiting to happen the ladies are far more relaxed and open to whatever, since most are tourists. So have fun out there, your in for the time of your life.
 

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Can anyone answer this question: why do people like to vacation in Hawaii, but not live there permanently? Is there a reason?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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My friend Theresa lives in Hawaii. She's an HB9 (or 10 to some people) and probably one of the coolest people I know. Find her and date her and you will be happy for the rest of your life.

Until she comes back to MD.

Then she's mine. ;)

~Vibe~
 

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A friend of mine hooked up with a girl from Hawaii (in Hawaii). She burned him (gonorrea).:(
 
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