"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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powpow

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If you are in hawaii and love women and game and being awesome, holler at me. Interisland flights not a problem.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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lexluciano

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holla at cha boy!!

we need to go bar hoppin around Waikiki :rockon:
 

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Greetings Hawaii,

I have wingman, Gladiator, who is heading out to Hawaii for two weeks of sarging. He's at a solidly intermediate level: low approach anxiety, good at distracting the obstacles to assist with isolation and knows how to DHV for his wing.

He is 24, athletic and easy going. He'll be in Waikiki Jun 24 - Jul 1 (without access to a car) and in Kona Jul 1 - Jul 8 (with a rental car).

He's read The Game, watched some RSD pickup videos on YouTube and taken a number of classes with ASP Teaching in Seattle. He's looking for wingmen 18+ who are down for night game AND day game on the islands. He'll be bouncing around, so I'll let you coordinate about his itinerary. ETA is late June with ETD early July.

Shoot me a text with your email address, and I'll put you in touch. 520-333-7226 I know a couple of local guys out there, so I can also get you in touch with them.

Happy sarging,
Spence Verde
520-333-7226
 
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