"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Having trouble smiling/winking at girls? Try this!

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Wow, I'm smiling the evilest grin! Thanks, you made my day. This is gonna work!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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KUDOS TO YOU! This actually worked for me just a while ago in class! I thought of that line and it put an evil sh!t eating grin on my face. As a result, it opened up a wonderful conversation with this girl and got her number. I'm soooo going to keep using this technique. Thanks bro
 

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That's made my day, makes me think of a old friend that would unfortunately say that out-loud when drunk.

Going to have to start using it ; )
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"i want to f*ck you (in your ass) like you owe me money...., b*tch".


I'm going to be able to get a good laugh in today when I come out with that around my friends.
 

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magickarl said:
Bonus points if you say it out loud.
(Un?)fortunately I know someone that would do that :crackup:
 

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i don't have a problem smiling most of the time, but i cannot get myself to wink. ever.

i am going to try this tomorrow hahaa
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ahhhhh I was going to stay inside all day because honestly I don't have anything I have to do today.


But now that I read this and looked in the mirror and saw the face I made after saying that I'm going out today just to try this. I love it man!
 
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