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Don Juan
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Wow, I'm smiling the evilest grin! Thanks, you made my day. This is gonna work!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Having trouble smiling/winking at girls? Try this!
- Thread starter snowdog
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
CP3WOO
Don Juan
KUDOS TO YOU! This actually worked for me just a while ago in class! I thought of that line and it put an evil sh!t eating grin on my face. As a result, it opened up a wonderful conversation with this girl and got her number. I'm soooo going to keep using this technique. Thanks bro
Demonicale
Senior Don Juan
I'll give it a go and see what happens!.
Hughman
Senior Don Juan
That's made my day, makes me think of a old friend that would unfortunately say that out-loud when drunk.
Going to have to start using it ; )
Going to have to start using it ; )
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Dante420
Master Don Juan
"i want to f*ck you (in your ass) like you owe me money...., b*tch".
I'm going to be able to get a good laugh in today when I come out with that around my friends.
I'm going to be able to get a good laugh in today when I come out with that around my friends.
Hughman
Senior Don Juan
(Un?)fortunately I know someone that would do that :crackup:magickarl said:Bonus points if you say it out loud.
CTApprentice
Don Juan
lol. Im gonna start doing that(not saying it out loud though).
:yes:
:yes:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Zooey
Don Juan
wp sir
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
GoodButNotGreat
Don Juan
- Joined
- Mar 3, 2008
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great success
Ahhhhh I was going to stay inside all day because honestly I don't have anything I have to do today.
But now that I read this and looked in the mirror and saw the face I made after saying that I'm going out today just to try this. I love it man!
But now that I read this and looked in the mirror and saw the face I made after saying that I'm going out today just to try this. I love it man!