Having trouble getting erection

[lordson]

I've tried to search for threads, but couldn't find any

For the last few occasions, i just can't get it up when trying to have sex with my missus.

the mind is willing, i want to have sex, but my **** is just limp, it can't get past half mast no matter what. my gf is hot too, i can normally always get hard pretty fast when around her.

also i'm not incredibly horny as i used to be

I have been watching ALOT of porn over the last 6 months, but i stopped for a few weeks. but i found my libido isn't as rampant as it used to be either. i masturbated to porn maybe twice a week.

even now, i've stopped the porn and i can't get an erection. i dont feel 'nervous', like my heart isn't beating really fast or anything i dont have palpatations.

and every time we try again, i just keep thinking about how hard it was to get an erection last time and that puts me off a bit. i am mentally worried about whther or not i can perform, and then seeing the dissapointment in her face doesn['t help

i'm at my wits end here

I eat lots of meat and go gym twice a week, so i get plenty of Zinc in my diet

Have any of you guys been in this situation before?

cheers

 

[Bible_Belt]

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=142330

Also, don't expect to perform in an instant's notice. Get naked, fvck around, make her cvm with your hands or mouth, and when you are not trying so much, things will start working.

 

[lordson]

yeah i had a look at that thread, just wondering if any guys here had the same problem and what they did to overcome it

i sleep plenty, i am a little strssed about uni, but i dont hthink that is affecting me. i just can't perform. i just can't relax, i'll be concerned about this every single time we try to have sex from now on

ill try viagra but i dont want to depend on it. $10 every time we have sex is just a bit much

 

[KarmaSutra]

Relax on the masturbation for a while.

Don't concentrate on what you cannot do, instead focus on turning her on and she'll reciprocate in kind. She'll find it a challenge to make you as hard as steel.

We all know how women love a challenge.

 

[joekerr31]

maybe you are afraid that her vagina is going to eat your penis? well not you, but maybe your penis is afraid of that.

other than that, id say go talk to a doctor man.

why would ask a bunch of guys on here to help you with your penis? that's like asking a bunch of six year olds to fix your transmission.

 

[KarmaSutra]

Another possibility is diabetes.

Seriously, check your blood sugar and let me know the number.

Then go see a Doctor.

 

[lordson]

i'm pretty sure i'm in perfect physical health, i just had a blood test come back perfect a few weeks ago

i have one viagra pill left. so i'll wait a couple of days, see how my libido is, and then take the pill when i feel up for it, and see what happens

its really on and off. if i get an erection randomly, it'll stay, and we can have sex, but if i'm asked to perform, then it won't go up

so frustrating

 

[schttrj]

nothing to worry about, lordson.

i only have a different advice for u. i think watching a little porn and getting charged up with a little masturbation is good, it keeps us ready, you know. i feel so.

 

[lordson]

I think i just didn't feel like it on the day really. i dont have the nervousness of performance anxiety. i'll just give it a few days

plus she doesn't really do much to make me horny, she just expects it. like no touching or bl0wjob or anything

i've talked to her about it, so next time she wants me to 'perform' she knows she's going have to put a bit of work into it, rather than leaving it all up to me, to turn myself on, then try turn her on

 

[3countriesPlan]

hmmm... the problem is you might be bored with her..

 

[lordson]

could be, been with her for 2.5 years now

but i still find her attractive

i think i'm fine now, the problem pporbably was that i jsut didn't feel like it on the day, and who can say no when a gril is throwing herslef at you, and it didn't help that i was pushing myself when i didnt really feel like it

next time if she gets horny and wants it and i dont really feel like it, shes going to have to put some work in