Having trouble ejaculating...

[AlphaNate]

I'm seeing several women at the time, and I'm having trouble with all of them. It's only been happening the last month or two.

The only way I can seem to finish is to do it myself. Even then, it doesn't always work.

I've had this problem in the past, but it's never been this often.

Help?

 

[Desdinova]

What's the problem? Do you WANT to increase the risk of pregnancy?

 

[AlphaNate]

Do I... What?

No, who said anything about getting anyone pregnant?

Girls tend to feel bad when I don't. And I'd rather finish up than not.

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear Number Nine,
Perfectly normal old chap.....Remember the use of Cialis or Viagra reduces sensitivity....As you get Older you will experience this more....Taoists believe one should reduce ejaculations as you age,they have techniques to enable one to Climax,without the energy consuming need for an orgasm.....As a compromise,do what the Girls of the Village do,Fake it!...Make sure you take a mega dose of Vitamin B every day,also two Zinc tablets....That will help a lot....As will rest and the added stimulation of a new Partner....Asian Women are of course another prescription,they are tighter and will help your performance....Even a Slack Western Woman who does her Kegals,could improve things....Welcome to the World of aging Lotharios!

 

[Greasy Pig]

I have trouble cvmming through intercourse but I don't see it as a bad thing.
I've found that really slowing down my thrusts seems to heighten the sensations and I get off.
So try going hard early and then withdrawing to the tip and slowly slide back in, concentrating on the warm, slippery sensations going on down there.

But still, nothing really works if I've had a gutful of booze.

 

[AlphaNate]

I've tried going slower, but I can try some more.

I'd rather not fake it, for my sake and hers. (Although I've done that, haha!)

Asian women eh? Hmmmmm... hadn't thought of that.

And I'm going to try the vitamin B and Zinc. Are those known for increasing sensitivity?

 

[disgustipated]

Lay off any hand stimulation you do on yourself. Tell yourself you will be in some ***** soon so you will get off by *****, not hand.

Try sleeping in the nude, that's hours of non rubbing for your junk. Cut down looking at any porn, none if you can. When you see your girl naked it will excite you more if your eyes have been starved of the female form.

I have the exact problem as you and there is a recent thread in here somewhere. These things help my sensitivity. Also slow thrusts as was mentioned, the faster harder I go it seems the friction dries things up and that is counterproductive for you cummingg. And the more I settle on a chicks(looks) the harder it is to pop even if she has one attribute I like(phat ass). These are my experiences.

 

[SecondHalf]

All good advice.
You wouldn't happen to be on SSRI's would you?
They make it near impossible.

Are you using a condom or going bareback?
Condoms make it tough for me (one reason I like LTR's).

SH

 

[AlphaNate]

I am taking an SSRI...

 

[SecondHalf]

I am taking an SSRI...

Then you've found your problem... 100%
Talk to your DR. Maybe Welbutrin will work for you with no side sexual side effect.

SH

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear All,
these Acronyms!!!....What is an SSRI when it is home?.....Also please,what is Welbrutin used for?...Never thought of Condoms,but I agree with second half,they do lower sensitivity....For me ejaculation or not is a delicate balance between energy conservation and Prostate health...high time for Collossus to give us an input.

 

[SecondHalf]

Dear All,
these Acronyms!!!....What is an SSRI when it is home?.....Also please,what is Welbrutin used for?...Never thought of Condoms,but I agree with second half,they do lower sensitivity....For me ejaculation or not is a delicate balance between energy conservation and Prostate health...high time for Collossus to give us an input.

SSRI = Selective serotonin reuptake inhibitor (depression medication).
Wellbutrin = Bupropion = another depression/anxiety med, also used to quit smoking/eating/drinking/craving but without the sexual side effect.
In fact, Wellbutrin can actually make people hyper sexual (a fine marriage drug )

SH

 

[AlphaNate]

I was with two girls this week. I've been taking the vitamins.

One was very skinny and let me go in from behind. I tried going slow, fast, left, right... NOTHING.

So two nights ago, after a few hours of ravaging, I told girl 2 to give me a ******* while I watched porn on my iPod.

I came within about 15 minutes and we were both happy.

Why would porn be the trick?!?