having trouble at clubs....

[tryin 2 play]

Man I hate going to clubs/bars. I'm having a lot of trouble picking up at these places. I am pretty good when it comes to other settings such as school, just talking tothe girl one on one. I did end up dancing with a few chicks, thye would be dancing and i would start danicng near them, we would end updancing together.

The trouble comes when they are standing around. I tried to come up with a decent line to get these girls out on the floor with me. I was really drunk ad this was the best i could come up with:
me:you didn't come here to stand around talking to your friends did you?
here:no
me:Then come dance with me...
her:some dumb exscuse.

There was this one chick tlaking to some loser, and i walekd by and she gave me sooo much EC it was crazy, i was too chicken sh!t at that point in the night to approach. I was gonna walk up to her and whisper in her ear: you didnt come here to talk to THIS kid did you?? I think it might have actually worked on her, seemed like she wanted me to "save her" from that situation haha.

Anyways im rambling, just looking for some tips on clubs/bar pickups. I am decent looking guy, not the BEST looking, but far from ugly. Any help tips with clothes/peacocking, openers, etc...

 

[GtarPlayr73]

You hate going to clubs? There's a reason for that: it is women's territory! They are set up as the PRIZE to be won and they know it. Why? Well, just look at all the chumps chasing after them with techniques, lines, etc. Trying to what? WIN THEM. Such men are RULED by women. They have no life of their own. Superficial. Empty. I could go on, but instead i'll point you to this thread for more:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=125207

the club-related content is halfway down, but read the whole thread while you're at it...

 

[wheelin&dealin]

Anyways im rambling, just looking for some tips on clubs/bar pickups. I am decent looking guy, not the BEST looking, but far from ugly. Any help tips with clothes/peacocking, openers, etc...

Here are a few tips:

Talk to every girl you see whether she's short, fat, ugly or good looking. The hot broads notice this and they'll see all these women talking to you... They'll get jealous and assume that there must be something special about you if all these women are talking to you. Then they'll want a piece of you.


Another tip is to work on your dance moves. Don't be the typical guy that can't dance or refuses to dance. Get some sick moves, practice at home, then throw them out on the dance floor. You'll be amazed at the response you get.

 

[ozzfest]

my 2 cents. not sure talking to every single woman is the ideal technique. women catch on to guys who just hit on everyone. the good ones won't stand for it. all you'll get there is the desperate ones who don't care that you've just struck out with a dozen ladies.

I do agree that knowing how to grind and dance helps...helps big time. women associate dancing with how a man performs sexually.

Yeah most guys including me hate clubs. We just put up with it to get women. Thing is some guy some where is scoring women in clubs so they can't be all bad. Sure at the end of the night at closing if you walk out of there w/o a women you feel like $567. Just wasted 3 hrs. However, if you score then it was worthwhile. The thing is for those 3 hrs you have to dumb it down and get on their level. Pretend you enoy it. The thing that gets me is ladies seem to reeeally enjoy clubbing. That just shows the diff between men and women. And like i said before women like to dance and like to see how a man dances. Its a whole diff mindset. Lastly, dancing and grinding for a married chick is about as close as she might get to cheating...so for the married ones they like the thrill they get of teasing...etc.

 

[tryin 2 play]

Yea good info guys...thanks for some input!!

 

[Poonani Maker]

Here are a few tips:

Talk to every girl you see whether she's short, fat, ugly or good looking. The hot broads notice this and they'll see all these women talking to you... They'll get jealous and assume that there must be something special about you if all these women are talking to you. Then they'll want a piece of you.


Another tip is to work on your dance moves. Don't be the typical guy that can't dance or refuses to dance. Get some sick moves, practice at home, then throw them out on the dance floor. You'll be amazed at the response you get.

Good advice. Talking with every chick will sometimes backfire on you because the fat ones, even though you couldn't get it up in a million years for them, will start to think you're some kind of pervert (because the looks department between you and them is such a large gap). Women are this way. They always start off thinking that they are the prize, which is whorsh1t because we both have two parts (sexual organs) and it takes two to tango, we are the drivers, they are the drivees. Think of women as all having balls slappin them in the eyes and face all the time and you'll understand the correct perspective of their state of mind when you go in on them. They're all very fvckin stupid.