"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Having the women Seduce you VS You Seducing the women

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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st_99

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Honestly, I don't think it matters.

Its all about how you handle yourself afterwords. Are you THE man or are you a DOUCHE?

Thats all.
 

Crissco

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st_99 said:
Honestly, I don't think it matters.

Its all about how you handle yourself afterwords. Are you THE man or are you a DOUCHE?

Thats all.
Good answer bro.
 

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#1 You DHV

#2 You attract girl's interest

#3 You then decide whether she is worth going after

#4 You then make the first move

#5 Then the interaction begins

So who is seducing who?

Let's just say that you think you are seducing her

And she thinks she is seducing you

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Who cares?

It doesn't really matter. I can swing both ways.

Yeah it's cool when the girl hits on you but I enjoy the hunt way too much.
 
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