having the final say *advice needed*

[wifehunter]

This is gold..

Super Gold

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

I've always thought the best revenge is having them see you with a hotter girl and having a better time with them than you ever did with her, all the while ignoring her presence as if she doesn't exist. That just pours salt on the wound.

 

[dude99]

some of you may be aware I've been having trouble with my (ex) GF lately

to cut a long story short for those that don't

6 month relationship ,for 4 months everything was incredible

however at 5 months in my gut told me something was up she went weird cold and distant

no smoke without fire i slammed the breaks on and went ghost

she's been doing her upmost to try and fvck with my mind since but I've maintained my science

last night she messages me begging to talk .........ok il let her have her say

she rings me crying saying she misses me and her "head is fvcked" i tell her calmly that I'm not interested in immature little girls who play games with guys they claim to "love"

then the truth finally comes out she says she has been sleeping with her EX

( a guy that cheated on her with her best friend LMFAO )

all the pieces finally fall together like a jigsaw puzzle and for the first time i can see the whole picture for myself

i don't know how long she's been sleeping with him , to be honest i don't particularly care as far as I'm concerned we are done

i tell her this ( more crying ) i put the phone down and tell her to delete my number

.....................................

ok now this is where i need you're help guys the relationship is over I've accepted that , i accepted it a few weeks ago

however i put a lot into this girl and i feel she needs to understand what she's done

I've drafted a pretty horrific message for her .......outlining every single one of her fvck ups what she's lost and a couple of seriously gut wrenching home truths for her

i know the message has got the potential to break her because of the way I've written it and thats what i want

my only question is would just completely walking away at this point hurt her more than sending the message ?

Just walking away and cutting her from your life will break her more than any words ever could.

Women live for entertainment and you giving her a laundry list of mistakes she made will just make her want to banter back and forth with you.

Cut all ties. You no longer caring will hurt more than bantering and proving you DO care.

 

[Bingo-Player]

i just want to thank everyone whos commented on this

seriously you've all been solid i really needed guidence today and ive had way more than i anticipated

once ive sorted myself out and im back in the zone , i hope i can help you all with you're problems as much as you have helped me

 

[wifehunter]

i just want to thank everyone whos commented on this

seriously you've all been solid i really needed guidence today and ive had way more than i anticipated

once ive sorted myself out and im back in the zone , i hope i can help you all with you're problems as much as you have helped me

Get your mojo back...and have some fun!!!

 

[soulforge]

i just want to thank everyone whos commented on this

seriously you've all been solid i really needed guidence today and ive had way more than i anticipated

once ive sorted myself out and im back in the zone , i hope i can help you all with you're problems as much as you have helped me

You will get there man.. give it time!

 

[hockeyfreak79]

100% full Houdini, just like you've already been doing minus hearing her cry over the phone.

Practice practice practice your "no contact" skillz now. This is the perfect time to be single anyway. Summer time is here!

Welcome to the world of self sabbotaging broads. You've been trained to expect the unexpected and your gut even warned you and you did exactly as you should have.

Enjoy your holiday in Ibiza! Yeah I'm jealous.