"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Having some Respect. It goes a long way

bearfan34201

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Hung out with Allie tonight. I was sick with the Flu yesterday so I only had one night of going out and doing ****. Yesterday I had around 12 missed calls, I am a missed man haha.


So tonight I called Allie and she wanted to chill, So we hung out at my buddies party. He had about 20 people over and most I am cool with. There the very cliche' prep jock ******* type. Now I dress the same but I have a real personality. They were the tpyical Stuck Up ***** girls too. The Popular ones you can say, All I've had a chances with in the past. I've explained them before.


Now I said this because I brought Allie, Brittany(a fling of mine) and her friend jen; Who was fat and not a good looking person. Ju

Brittany and Allie go to a different school so they dress a little differnet, More the California look than girls at my school. So what do people at my school do? Treat them like ****, Make fun of the way the dress and they made fun of Jen about her weight to the point where she was in tears.

Now I say this cause these guys do get girls, The stuck up *****es. For those that are still early in high school, DO NOT become these guys. It's degrading and disrespectful.

Now after this I had to do something. I stood up and got right in there face and told them to shut the f up and say another word and id beat there ass. They knew I was serious when I stood up and told them.

Where am I going with this? This group of high schoolers try to gang up on people that aren't in there little group, To make themselves feel better. Hell even some girls were laughing at this girl, I yelled at them too. I just wish I could have said more but I think they got the idea when they were kissing my ass and not saying anything to the girl.

The night ended with me and Allie talking about hanging out soon.

But whats also good about the whole situation?

HB8(Lifeguard) wants me, Bad. She has a Boyfriend but I see her check me out all the time in swimming and telling girls about my body. It's odvioulsly on. She was flirting with me heavy when I got there and hinting big time. But I like her boyfriend. But when Allie and them showed up. She didnt set her eyes off me. I saw her staring at me and my buddy caught it. It's cause I had balls and confidence in myself that I'm better than those *******s, And can talk to Allie and Brittany without problems. There both really cute girls which pissed off the *****es from my school. I cant believe how high school is, 2 more months man 2 more months. Just respect yourself, If you enjoy someones company and find they are fun. And someone doesn't like them? For physical reasons? You tell them what you feel, And show some balls. It didn't take me more than 30 seconds for them to shut the **** up the rest of the night. And I was the only one to get in there face about it, It's about being a man. And doing whats right, Ya know?


And me and my buddy chilled with these girls from a few towns over Thurs. Just sat around and didnt do much, I was catching onto the flu so I was non social. But anyways one of the HB9's tells my buddy that she thinks I'm really hot(of course after I leave) and she wants him to give me her number. I find out today shes been talking about me nonstop and she wants to FuK. HAHA!

So thats in the bag next time I see them.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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respect is everything.. for yourself and for others..

respect people unless they give you reason not too... thats how i usually go about my life..
 

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"Some people tear others down just to build themselves up. Others just build up." ------another great AnimalPak saying.
 

dynamicallyidle

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bearfan34201 said:
Hung out with Allie tonight. I was sick with the Flu yesterday so I only had one night of going out and doing ****. Yesterday I had around 12 missed calls, I am a missed man haha.


So tonight I called Allie and she wanted to chill, So we hung out at my buddies party. He had about 20 people over and most I am cool with. There the very cliche' prep jock ******* type. Now I dress the same but I have a real personality. They were the tpyical Stuck Up ***** girls too. The Popular ones you can say, All I've had a chances with in the past. I've explained them before.


Now I said this because I brought Allie, Brittany(a fling of mine) and her friend jen; Who was fat and not a good looking person. Ju

Brittany and Allie go to a different school so they dress a little differnet, More the California look than girls at my school. So what do people at my school do? Treat them like ****, Make fun of the way the dress and they made fun of Jen about her weight to the point where she was in tears.

Now I say this cause these guys do get girls, The stuck up *****es. For those that are still early in high school, DO NOT become these guys. It's degrading and disrespectful.

Now after this I had to do something. I stood up and got right in there face and told them to shut the f up and say another word and id beat there ass. They knew I was serious when I stood up and told them.

Where am I going with this? This group of high schoolers try to gang up on people that aren't in there little group, To make themselves feel better. Hell even some girls were laughing at this girl, I yelled at them too. I just wish I could have said more but I think they got the idea when they were kissing my ass and not saying anything to the girl.

The night ended with me and Allie talking about hanging out soon.

But whats also good about the whole situation?

HB8(Lifeguard) wants me, Bad. She has a Boyfriend but I see her check me out all the time in swimming and telling girls about my body. It's odvioulsly on. She was flirting with me heavy when I got there and hinting big time. But I like her boyfriend. But when Allie and them showed up. She didnt set her eyes off me. I saw her staring at me and my buddy caught it. It's cause I had balls and confidence in myself that I'm better than those *******s, And can talk to Allie and Brittany without problems. There both really cute girls which pissed off the *****es from my school. I cant believe how high school is, 2 more months man 2 more months. Just respect yourself, If you enjoy someones company and find they are fun. And someone doesn't like them? For physical reasons? You tell them what you feel, And show some balls. It didn't take me more than 30 seconds for them to shut the **** up the rest of the night. And I was the only one to get in there face about it, It's about being a man. And doing whats right, Ya know?


And me and my buddy chilled with these girls from a few towns over Thurs. Just sat around and didnt do much, I was catching onto the flu so I was non social. But anyways one of the HB9's tells my buddy that she thinks I'm really hot(of course after I leave) and she wants him to give me her number. I find out today shes been talking about me nonstop and she wants to FuK. HAHA!

So thats in the bag next time I see them.
Hey, I respect what you did telling those guys and girls to shut the **** up. I would have done the exact same thing. I hate when people prey on the weak. It makes them seem like such losers.

Kudos, bearfan. Keep it real.
 

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dynamicallyidle said:
Hey, I respect what you did telling those guys and girls to shut the **** up. I would have done the exact same thing. I hate when people prey on the weak. It makes them seem like such losers.

Kudos, bearfan. Keep it real.

Thank god there is people out there who have a spine. Good to see some of us still have balls to stand up for whats right.


That quotes true, It actually sickens me too see people act this way. And some stuck up *****es are laughing about it? Joining in? Where do they get off acting in such a way. I know theyve all wanted me at one time or another. I feel part of it was envy of Allie(a solid 8), I know Lifeguard wants me. Her eyes being dead set on me the whole night further proved it.


I hate High school.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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