"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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having problem...too many girls...never thought this would happen...

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hey guys, its been about a year or more since i've used this site, but because of it i've turned my life round from a loner who watched p0rn for any satisfaction to someone who has girls come up to me and wanna sleep with me/be with me. so ive decided to start using this because im entering a new part of my life and a whole new game. I just graduated from highschool and this summer i've met up with like 6 girls that wnna date me/b fu*k buddies, and then 3 more from highschool that wanna. its too much for me to handle. how do i keep myself from flirting so much that i get too overwhelmed with girls? never thought this would happen. and the worst part is that i love getting all this attention from different girls but i feel like im leading them on, and the first thing i swore my self is that i'm not gunna turn into a d1ck about this, i dont wanna b that dusch on the street who has a girl with him and is checking out all the other girls around him.

is what i'm doing wrong? or is it just me finally becoming what this site was helping me with in the first place? sorry i'm just really confused rite now about it all.

many thanks-nice guy
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ha,ha.ha. How ironic.

A "nice guy" who has more women than he can handle.

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 
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niceguy91 said:
hey guys, its been about a year or more since i've used this site, but because of it i've turned my life round from a loner who watched p0rn for any satisfaction to someone who has girls come up to me and wanna sleep with me/be with me. so ive decided to start using this because im entering a new part of my life and a whole new game. I just graduated from highschool and this summer i've met up with like 6 girls that wnna date me/b fu*k buddies, and then 3 more from highschool that wanna. its too much for me to handle. how do i keep myself from flirting so much that i get too overwhelmed with girls? never thought this would happen. and the worst part is that i love getting all this attention from different girls but i feel like im leading them on, and the first thing i swore my self is that i'm not gunna turn into a d1ck about this, i dont wanna b that dusch on the street who has a girl with him and is checking out all the other girls around him.

is what i'm doing wrong? or is it just me finally becoming what this site was helping me with in the first place? sorry i'm just really confused rite now about it all.

many thanks-nice guy
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Okay. Here's what you do: commit a lewd sexual act in front of a cop. This way, you'll be arrested and charged as a sex offender. Since girls don't like sex offenders, it should balance out your Pimp Polarity and cut your girls by half at least!
 
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This is an easy question. Buy a book on time management, you will need it! By a smartphone capabel of handle at least 2 SIM cards and your appointments (encrypted). Try out the girs in bed and keep as many as you can manage. Don´t be afraid to be an alpha male. The girls love them, even if they say something else. Enjoy yourself until you want to have children and a LTR.

And start here a thread to share your experince!
 
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lol, sounds like you have a problem lots of guys would love to have.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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This "woe is me" post is just a way to get attention and brag.

You don't really have a problem with all this, you're just here to show off and make the newbies envious. Get a new hobby you ****.
 
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sorry for asking for help. and i dont need attention. i came back here cz i thought that someone would help me out like they used to not bash me. and the other issue is that i'm turning 18 in 8 days and all these girls are under 18...
 
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If they want to fuk and/or be with you, you are probably coming across as too smooth, as in they might be thinking that you want a relationship with them, and deep inside you don't, so you feel like you are not being totally honest and are leading them on, wich gives you guilt. In other words, you might be doing a lot of just "lyin' to hit it", and they are taking it as you wanting a relationship.

When they tell you, "Oh niceguy91, I know you have many women you bang, and I would be happy to be one of 6 others, and don't expect a relationship", that is when you will have the real problem you are describing in your post. Good job, though, in coming along this far with your progress, sure beats the other option, does't it?
 
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thanks gangster of love, so should i let them know that i'm not looking for a relationship?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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thanks gangster of love, so should i let them know that i'm not looking for a relationship?
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You can be honest with them, but be aware that if you are not communicating that sex is not that important, a lot of them will decide to not sleep with you. If you are ok with your number of chicks you bed decreasing by being open and honest from the get go, it might be worth it so you don't have to have that guilt feeling.

The reality is, once you start being totally honest, and stop implying you will get in a relationship, just to bed them, women will accept it more than somebody who just says it to get laid, and will actually be ok with just having a sexual relationship. But initially, you might have to be ok with some of them not being ok with it, as that is only because when you first start telling them what you want, you might not be coming across as congruent.
 
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niceguy91 said:
and the other issue is that i'm turning 18 in 8 days and all these girls are under 18...
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Ahhh, this explains it...the guy's turning 18 and is banging girls who are younger. Of course it's going to be easy. Younger women are easy to hook up with for the most part. In high school, it was pretty much a breeze to hook up with hot girls. But once I got to college, it was whole different ball game. I was in for one hell of a rude awakening. That's why I came to this site and sought out self-help on how to do better with the ladies.
 
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