"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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having options is great, but now I have a dilemma - which would YOU choose?

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First of all, it's a DAMN good feeling going from having to call people to have something to do on the weekend to having multiple people invite you and you having to cancel on someone :rockon:

Now, I have 2 options for this weekend:


OPTION 1:

Friend's bday party. This is a girl I've hung out with for a long time, we were never more than friends and never will be - we just don't click. I've partied with her and her friends many times in the past and hooked up with a few of them, so I'll know the majority of the people there + a few fresh faces. I could possibly game some chick and score. Maybe maybe not. This would have to be someone new though. I've been invited about 3 weeks ago. My party game is nowhere near as good as my 1v1 game though (since I tend to go on dates more than I go to parties).

OPTION 2:

This girl I've recently met has invited me to go out of town with her and a few of her friends for her friend's bday for the weekend. Everything has been arranged. I got this invite a few days ago. I've known this chick for a few weeks, we've seen each other several times, and I've hit it every single time. She's a fantastic plate. I could probably get laid with some work on my part.

Now ... I could still get together with OPTION 2 a couple days before she leaves and still make the OPTION 1 party. OPTION 2 already knows I have plans, but I said I'd keep it in mind.



So ... which would you choose?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Sounds like you are already starting to get bored with Option 2. Since you said you can basically hit that anytime you want, I'd choose Option 1 and try to scam on some new chicks there. You will have social proof since you know a lot of people there. Also, if you cancel on Option 2, it will probably just make her like you more.
 

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md3sign said:
OPTION 2 already knows I have plans, but I said I'd keep it in mind.
That's why you shouldn't bail on OPTION 1, if the OPTION 2 knows you have plans and are giving up those to be with her, it's not really an ideal situation for you.

I would date the OPTION 2, before or after the saturday party.. but definitely go to the OPTION 1.

Just my thoughts!

- Faca
 

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hmmmm.. let's see:

Option 1 : No sex

Option 2 : Might get some

hmmmmm..

Option 1 : zzzzzzzzzzz

Option 2 : "That's it, right there"

hmmmmm... looks like a no brainer to me, Go with option 1.
 

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good point faca, I'll be seeing her tomorrow anyway so it should work out well.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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