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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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having no ride that big of a deal-girls. college is $

joe45

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i mean i now some ppl in college girls and guys who have cars and their parents bought it for em. like one girl her folks bought her a new eclipse when she was 18 and nows shes 24. she even told me if her parents didn't buy it for her she woulnt' be driving. she works in a 10/hr job and goes to college.

most of the ppl u see driving nice cars at 19,20, 21 i bet their folks bought it for em. one guy in my class while i was waiting in the bus stop passing by as i see drives a g35 and hes like 20. he also dresses like armani, versace, and when the instructor asked who also works and goes to school. he didn't put his hand up.

the fact is if ur a student and ur paying for ur own college tution and ur making a little over minimum wage- 10/hr, its just really hard to get a car-a decent car(10k approx) and having to pay for insurance(2k a yr) and also gas(150 /mnth). gas is $ in vancouver so is insurance. and the bus car is like what 69 bucks a month.

i wonder why some ppl make a big fuss about it. why u don;t have a car, when u goin get one...etc. yes they are girls. they just don't realize that yea my folks won't buy me a car, and that the job i have pays too little, and i don't really find bussing that bad. you think these girls don't care by the way they are dressing -hoodies, plain jeans, no make up, but they were the ones who made a fuss about it. funny thing these girls don't even have their car licenese and car and in their early to mid 20's.

i mean i can get a car, nothing special ,but why get myself in debt paying for gas, insurance..etc when the bus works just fine. i just not goin to buy and get a car and drive a girl around jsut for the sake of it. shes not even my gf, nor even really a friend. we just went out for like a month-2 months- 6 dates approx.

is busing that bad , i mean she buses in the first place anyways, why expect the guy to have a car, just b/c he ask u to hang out for lunch in dwtn, ask u out for bubble tea. lol. who said i was even dating or wanting her to be my gf. she even said when the bill came "well ur the guy", meaning i should pay for the tip also. i already paid for the meal. hey this wasn't a date. i paid anyways
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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joe45

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skirtChaser said:
you asked her out so you should pay, go buy a car and stop your whinning, in the mean time you can borrow my 04 S-Class when you need a car. 0o"=="o0
who said its was a date though. i wasn't really attracted to her at all anyways. she was a big thick girl. i just liked her since she was always friendly towards me. physical looks wise -no.

why should i buy a car to drive a girl that isn;t my friend , gf or even dating. just buy it b/c she said so lol hahah. ya right
 

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Oh my god...this board is descending into the lowest levels of AFCism.

I couldn't even read the OP. lolz like learnz 2 type d00d

And skirtChaser....sit DOWN AND READ THE DJ BIBLE.
 

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skirtChaser said:
ok you asked her to go somewhere so yes it was a date....just because you don't get a woody over this chick doesn't mean you don't have to pay when you ask someone to go somewhere unless you made arrangements pay dutch. I think that's what they call it. buy a car because you want to not because somebody male or female is telling you to buy a car. I would think it would be kinda tough taking a girl home in such a prestege vehicle as a public bus though. I think she would be thinking about what your house looks like on the way there and if the roof is made outta egg cartons.
no not a date=its hanging out with a friend. i didn;t flirt ,and she was treated like one of the guys. u just thought i was into her-ya right obese girls no way.
who said pretige car lol. i'm not into cars. ya try paying for tution at univ its damn $$.
anyways what does she have to offer nothing-she has no car, no license, no education and yes no job too. and u expect me to have a car, pay and everything.
btw i did pay, but the looks from her i knew she expected taht i pay all the time.
i never talk to her again. just nothing in common
 
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