spinning multiple plates really IS important
i now see how important it is to have plates spinning all the time. it has helped me so much these past few weeks. cause you all know how crazy i got over one girl i saw 5 times, who i am seeing tomorrow again. lets call her girl 1. girl 2 who i said yesterday, was fun.. we spend the afternoon together at a shopping center (mall) and flirted a lot. she knows im seeing someone but i think that helped with her interest. we playfully kept hitting each other and kino here and there. gave her a nice little massage. as a joke, because she makes cupcakes, she said she wanted the whole one hour massage.. at my house! (i was a lil surprised, she kept mentioning this too, sounds like shes serious about it) but for another time obviously. she put lipstick on infront of me too. she didn't want me to go home because i kept saying i gotta go and then she would drag me into another shop to check things out. it was still fun anyway. i kissed her cheek upon greeting. a lot of eye locks and laughs here and there. generally i think she's pretty interested. tried testing me too i think a few times saying "your gf" when she asked about it. i said shes not my gf (girl 1)
when she dropped me off at the station, i went to kiss her cheek and almost kissed her lips because she turned her head. but turned it back .. so i just got the cheek lol. dont know what that was about. maybe she thought i was goin for the other cheek. i havent spoken to her since .. wanna remain mysterious and let her think.
so now there's girl 3 who i havent had my first date with yet. she emailed me the other day saying she might be able to meet today, but she didnt let me know until before. she text my phone saying
"Hi <My name>. <Her name> here. Just saw your email
probably no good for today now. How about monday later in afternoon? i will be in < > for the day but maybe later on in afternoon depending on how long it takes. let me know."
aint texted back or anything yet. now im supposed to be seeing girl 1 on monday so i dont think im gonna cancel on her. maybe change it with girl 3 to tuesday? at least this way she'll be surprised that im gonna say no to her. she'll start thinking im seein other girls i guess.
sheesh, didn't know dating would be so exhausting! i'm almost glad i didnt meet girl 3 today. im stuffed!
i now see how important it is to have plates spinning all the time. it has helped me so much these past few weeks. cause you all know how crazy i got over one girl i saw 5 times, who i am seeing tomorrow again. lets call her girl 1. girl 2 who i said yesterday, was fun.. we spend the afternoon together at a shopping center (mall) and flirted a lot. she knows im seeing someone but i think that helped with her interest. we playfully kept hitting each other and kino here and there. gave her a nice little massage. as a joke, because she makes cupcakes, she said she wanted the whole one hour massage.. at my house! (i was a lil surprised, she kept mentioning this too, sounds like shes serious about it) but for another time obviously. she put lipstick on infront of me too. she didn't want me to go home because i kept saying i gotta go and then she would drag me into another shop to check things out. it was still fun anyway. i kissed her cheek upon greeting. a lot of eye locks and laughs here and there. generally i think she's pretty interested. tried testing me too i think a few times saying "your gf" when she asked about it. i said shes not my gf (girl 1)
when she dropped me off at the station, i went to kiss her cheek and almost kissed her lips because she turned her head. but turned it back .. so i just got the cheek lol. dont know what that was about. maybe she thought i was goin for the other cheek. i havent spoken to her since .. wanna remain mysterious and let her think.
so now there's girl 3 who i havent had my first date with yet. she emailed me the other day saying she might be able to meet today, but she didnt let me know until before. she text my phone saying
"Hi <My name>. <Her name> here. Just saw your email
probably no good for today now. How about monday later in afternoon? i will be in < > for the day but maybe later on in afternoon depending on how long it takes. let me know."aint texted back or anything yet. now im supposed to be seeing girl 1 on monday so i dont think im gonna cancel on her. maybe change it with girl 3 to tuesday? at least this way she'll be surprised that im gonna say no to her. she'll start thinking im seein other girls i guess.
sheesh, didn't know dating would be so exhausting! i'm almost glad i didnt meet girl 3 today. im stuffed!
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