"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Having Higher Value/Female AFC's

slaog

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Does having higher value than a woman cause them to become female AFC's?

I ask because I went on dates with a girl and she kept saying things like you can leave now (half way through the date) and shes always saying things like "don't let the other girls steal you away from me" and a fake laugh. She wants me to keep telling her I won't.

Also she said she was sure I wasn't going to call her back after our first 2 dates because I wasn't showing enough interest. This despite alot of eye and physical contact.

Also even though she clearly likes me she never praises me but negs me all the time (I neg her back). When I asked her what her first impressions of me were she said I had a nice coat and she was being serious!! Eventually she mentioned my good points and when I mentioned the things I liked about her she was shocked. It's like she has a low opinion of herself.

I'm delighted because I means I'm displaying higher value etc.

Anybody have any experiance?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Tazman

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This could easily turn the other way if you allow this to boost your ego too much. Take it for what's it's worth but don't get too comfortable. I've seen this strategy used to break down a man's defenses and then all of a sudden it stops and your left wondering what happened.
 
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