"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Having Female Friends

walkguy

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Hey guys tell me its wrong for a married man to have female friends i get told constantly that its not proper to have frendships with the opposite sex from my wife , the 2 of us dont have many "couples " friendships very few and hardly get together with them becise she is uncomfortable with that
she her self has few friends mainly women friends no male friendships and her girlfriends have invited her out but wont or makes up some kind of excuse that she cant come out she has a problem but shouold i give up time with my "girl friends " and not join them in activities even though all of them trust me verymuch and dont mind going out to do things like movies , concerts etc
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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dietzcoi

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Yes, it is wrong for a married man to have female "friends". Not only is it wrong it is BS. Grown men and women do not have "friends" of the opposite sex... that is high school and college sh1t. If you are married and want to stay married I would suggest you stop what you are doing. Do you want your wife to spend time with male "friends" who I guarantee want to fukk her? I doubt it. Think of it from that perspective.

Besides, get some male friends! What do you need woman friends for, are you involved with a sewing circle or embroidering?

Dietzcoi
 

Viking25

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As a married couple you guys should adress all problems as such. It's not her or yours issue...tackle it as a couple,you know. It afects you as a couple so you gotta look at that as a couple.When you start separating it like that- bad sign!..I am sure you can find things you both like to do...and meet other ppl in the prosses...male and female.
 

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Well what exactly do you mean by friends? Like do you, your wife and your friend all go out together? Are these women also her friends? When you say you go to the movies with them, is it JUST you two or is there a group and / or your wife included?
 

The_Shnitz

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im sorry but i think its ok to have female friends when you are married as long as you have known then for a long time, i mean im not married or anything but the way i see it is that if you are making new friendships with women then that might be a bit off, but if these women are like lifelong friends or whatever then thats gotta be allright, right?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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High Voltage

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You've got to be kidding.

You are entitled to befriend whoever you want. If your wife has issues with this that his her problem, not yours. She is obviously insecure. My god, I wouldn't care if my wife had male friends! I understand that there is a lot of anger on this board, but when a guy and a girl are together it doesn't always mean that they will end up sleeping with each other!

I seriously hope some of the replies were meant as jokes or dolled out with a heavy portion sarcasm.

NEVER change yourself for a girl, even if she is your wife!!

- HV
 
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