So when I use online dating, I'll talk to various girls and get them out on dates and date a few at a time, but there will always be that one girl I'll prefer dating over the others, even if it's just slightly.
I've been on two dates with this girl and set to go on our third this Wednesday, it will be two weeks since our second date due to this recent week being full of handing in assignments, presentations and job interviews at University. She's postponed every day but still suggested another time and met up.
Now as you can tell, this is the girl I prefer over the others I'm dating, which makes online dating annoying to me.. I've not noticed her online on POF the odd time, last time being Thursday so she's on it now and again.
After talking with my mate about her postponing dates but then she re-arranges and meets up with me, he ended up making a fake account on POF and messaged her in which she replied the following day with "hey
hows you x" and confirmed that she probably was still using it. I didn't ask him to do this as I could see her status be online every once in a while so I knew she took a browse on it.
For some reason I do feel miffed that she sent a message back, even if we've only had TWO dates and we're just dating, not exclusive, etc. I have no idea why I feel miffed, because I ALSO use pof to talk to others. I tell myself she has every right as I do and that if we're still going on dates then who cares?
She doesn't initiate proper texts as much as she used to since earlier this week but still responds quickly if I take a while, she still uses emojis and asks questions, etc. When I say proper, she initiated texting with me on Thursday night but she was drunk asking me to come to a party on the 20th because her friends want to meet me. The next morning she said "Omg totally just read this I was so drunk last night. Omg, I'll talk to you about it on Wednesday. Don't book it off just yet hahaha :')"
For some reason, I feel like that text wasn't meant for me and possibly someone else. Only reason I think that is because the last time she initiated text with me was on Monday when she had to postpone the date, whereas before that she'd hit my phone up regular every 1-2 days.
I've been on two dates with this girl and set to go on our third this Wednesday, it will be two weeks since our second date due to this recent week being full of handing in assignments, presentations and job interviews at University. She's postponed every day but still suggested another time and met up.
Now as you can tell, this is the girl I prefer over the others I'm dating, which makes online dating annoying to me.. I've not noticed her online on POF the odd time, last time being Thursday so she's on it now and again.
After talking with my mate about her postponing dates but then she re-arranges and meets up with me, he ended up making a fake account on POF and messaged her in which she replied the following day with "hey
hows you x" and confirmed that she probably was still using it. I didn't ask him to do this as I could see her status be online every once in a while so I knew she took a browse on it.For some reason I do feel miffed that she sent a message back, even if we've only had TWO dates and we're just dating, not exclusive, etc. I have no idea why I feel miffed, because I ALSO use pof to talk to others. I tell myself she has every right as I do and that if we're still going on dates then who cares?
She doesn't initiate proper texts as much as she used to since earlier this week but still responds quickly if I take a while, she still uses emojis and asks questions, etc. When I say proper, she initiated texting with me on Thursday night but she was drunk asking me to come to a party on the 20th because her friends want to meet me. The next morning she said "Omg totally just read this
I was so drunk last night. Omg, I'll talk to you about it on Wednesday. Don't book it off just yet hahaha :')"For some reason, I feel like that text wasn't meant for me and possibly someone else. Only reason I think that is because the last time she initiated text with me was on Monday when she had to postpone the date, whereas before that she'd hit my phone up regular every 1-2 days.