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To continue, what you most want in a relationship is to choose the correct woman to procreate and build a life with.
That means someone who puts YOU first. You want a woman who has the following priorities:
1. The marriage as in the intimate relationship with her husband comes above all else.
2. To be a good confidant/partner/friend to her husband.
3. To be a great parent.
The children come after the marriage relationship in the great unions. Why? You are partners for life, parents raising kids only for a part of life.
Children best learn what a great union is by seeing a great example in their parents relationship, period.
The priorities above get you there.
OP discuss this with your girlfriend if y’all are seriously considering being life partners and parents. It may reveal quite a bit about her character from an angle you’ve not considered.
That means someone who puts YOU first. You want a woman who has the following priorities:
1. The marriage as in the intimate relationship with her husband comes above all else.
2. To be a good confidant/partner/friend to her husband.
3. To be a great parent.
The children come after the marriage relationship in the great unions. Why? You are partners for life, parents raising kids only for a part of life.
Children best learn what a great union is by seeing a great example in their parents relationship, period.
The priorities above get you there.
OP discuss this with your girlfriend if y’all are seriously considering being life partners and parents. It may reveal quite a bit about her character from an angle you’ve not considered.