"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Having ****buddies and whatnot experiences as well interesting post

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Well I might as well tell you all where Ive been recently. I currently have 3 white **** buddies being mexican (not youre average tho, Im basically white and look good) and have a girl that I once considered my ****buddy but completley flipped the script on me and used me and yea it honestly did hurt, I thought maybe I had feeelings for her but the truth was that I wasnt in control bc she didnt care and didnt stay attached to me days after sex.

ahhh basically Ill just say for advice that you have to put yourself in a situation where you have a girl alone or youre friend a girl for him and a girl for you for **** to really work... its like they want sex just as bad and I can tell so it always comes up for me almost effortlessly.

This is why I stress on looks, I know I look pretty amazing to these girls and honestly this site has me confused as **** bc I just cant fit all that information in my head, then apply it Im not a robot Im a guy....

ahhh any questions comments anyone wanna start a convo hit me up ;)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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props for being mexican and still hitting up the white girls.


btw, can you tell us more about your game ? You said looks are important ? Do you use any routines or basically find girls that are really attracted to you physically...

how hot are your FB ?
 

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So what is supposed to be the deal with Mexican men and white women? Is it supposed to be taboo?
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
So what is supposed to be the deal with Mexican men and white women? Is it supposed to be taboo?
Well, White people are worshipped in South American culture - ever watch Telemundo? All the stars are basically White and you never see any dark Indio Mexicans onscreen.

Anyways, I don't know where the OP is at, but I'm guessing he's bangin' 18-yo White girls - cuz they tend to focus more on looks alone and are often real s1utty.
 

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Well, White people are worshipped in South American culture - ever watch Telemundo? All the stars are basically White and you never see any dark Indio Mexicans onscreen.

Anyways, I don't know where the OP is at, but I'm guessing he's bangin' 18-yo White girls - cuz they tend to focus more on looks alone and are often real s1utty.
Is it worship or could it possibly be that they are more accepting of the differences of people than we are here in the states? Yeah yeah, I know it's an utopian thought but a guy can dream, right? :rock: :rock: :rock:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Is it worship or could it possibly be that they are more accepting of the differences of people than we are here in the states?
No, even less. The vast majority of Mexicans are dark Indio types...and yet the majority of high-status celebs are the Whiter types. You do the math.

The reason why so many dark Indio illegales sneak over here is because they're treated EVEN WORSE in their home country of Mexico!
 
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might I add that I am that type you describe but I dress nice, like ahhh prep/skater style, u know what I'd have to go with MTV'S Laguna Beach style. I have an ear pierced always look nice and I know Im attractive, I have a somewhat shag, but its very well kept, like model stylish, ahh I weigh 162 and am 5'8 so I look very stocky and muscular nice big butt.

As for game I guess sometimes I just play stupid and like the "fallen angel" so to speak.

Dont get me wrong if youre getting a different vibe from me I still get nervous and have been asked why Im trembling right b4 sex and been asked if I was a virgin lol... yea I can joke around about that ;) .

as for ****buddys... The one that used me was HOTT!! lol, my friend want her now.. Im not sure if she want to **** him tho.

ahh then I have my girl which is absolutely amazing, shes ukrainian, and I love her basically I think Im cutting down on everyone else.

ahh one girl that has a bf, shes decent, nothing special, and I can get sex from her whenever, "ALL I (YOU) HAVE TO DO IS ASK"

ahh and this ugly girl itd b social suicide if people were to find out, but hey, lol ***** is ***** and score one for the ugly loser girls lol :crackup:


basically how I put myself in those relationships is finding a way to b alone with a girl or with one friend and one girl, its almost effortless after that, why? bc theyre just as horny.. just "do wat i do", and **** at mt school their are guys even better, "hey you see that girl right there?" "yes"..." watch me go stand by her and she'll hit on me, I'll ask to hangout tonight and we'll have sex at the park at night lol"

Its very simple you just have to do it, then youll "do" it lol.:up:
 
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