"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Having (and keeping) Standards

jglide123

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It is common knowledge that many men will sleep with any woman willing to have sex with them. When a man is just beginning to have success with women, such a mentality is somewhat understandable. Somewhat. Past a certain point, though, having sex with sub-par women can have a negative effect on your game, because you subconsciously believe that is the best you can do.

Also, If you talk to the average guy, he drools over very attractive women, putting them on pedestals. I'm sure we've all read one of Maxims' "Hottest Women of the Year" type articles, where they just fawn over these women.

While there is nothing wrong with stating how attractive a woman is, many guys take it too far and begin to supplicate. Part of having standards means respecting yourself enough to know that no person is superior to you simply because they are beautiful.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Nik TPT

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Everyone should have standards, why lower yourself for no reason?
 

Eternal_water

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Nik TPT said:
Everyone should have standards, why lower yourself for no reason?
Perhaps because for many of us none of the people in our standards would have sex with us while many below would.
 
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