"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Having (and keeping) Standards

jglide123

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It is common knowledge that many men will sleep with any woman willing to have sex with them. When a man is just beginning to have success with women, such a mentality is somewhat understandable. Somewhat. Past a certain point, though, having sex with sub-par women can have a negative effect on your game, because you subconsciously believe that is the best you can do.

Also, If you talk to the average guy, he drools over very attractive women, putting them on pedestals. I'm sure we've all read one of Maxims' "Hottest Women of the Year" type articles, where they just fawn over these women.

While there is nothing wrong with stating how attractive a woman is, many guys take it too far and begin to supplicate. Part of having standards means respecting yourself enough to know that no person is superior to you simply because they are beautiful.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Nik TPT

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Everyone should have standards, why lower yourself for no reason?
 

Eternal_water

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Nik TPT said:
Everyone should have standards, why lower yourself for no reason?
Perhaps because for many of us none of the people in our standards would have sex with us while many below would.
 
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