"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yeah, i think what Ease and some of you others is true. I was being dumb/ insecure. Whatever moving on. I'll remeber this situation and act differently next time. This girl really loves me and there is really no chance of her breaking up with me as i usually am very confident/ dominant/ not being jealous in the least. She is not a slut and actually would never cheat on me in our current situation. I guess i just don't like it that she looking for that type of attention from guys.
I think its rooted in the fact that she's really good friends with two of my really good friends, like texting them all the time, which i talked about in a different thread. I've been more jealousish lately for some reason. Anyway, got to get my head straight. I'm thinking about dumping her to work on myself some. I told her yesterday that i didn't love her like i thought I did, that i had said it too early and i dont think i actually love her. She said she still loved me and was alright with the fact that I'm not in love with her. We're still together. Any thoughts? Maybe i'm just writing my thoughts down
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Yeah, i think what Ease and some of you others is true. I was being dumb/ insecure. Whatever moving on. I'll remeber this situation and act differently next time. This girl really loves me and there is really no chance of her breaking up with me as i usually am very confident/ dominant/ not being jealous in the least. She is not a slut and actually would never cheat on me in our current situation. I guess i just don't like it that she looking for that type of attention from guys.
I think its rooted in the fact that she's really good friends with two of my really good friends, like texting them all the time, which i talked about in a different thread. I've been more jealousish lately for some reason. Anyway, got to get my head straight. I'm thinking about dumping her to work on myself some. I told her yesterday that i didn't love her like i thought I did, that i had said it too early and i dont think i actually love her. She said she still loved me and was alright with the fact that I'm not in love with her. We're still together. Any thoughts? Maybe i'm just writing my thoughts down
 
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Yeah, i think what Ease and some of you others is true. I was being dumb/ insecure. Whatever moving on. I'll remeber this situation and act differently next time. This girl really loves me and there is really no chance of her breaking up with me as i usually am very confident/ dominant/ not being jealous in the least. She is not a slut and actually would never cheat on me in our current situation. I guess i just don't like it that she looking for that type of attention from guys.
I think its rooted in the fact that she's really good friends with two of my really good friends, like texting them all the time, which i talked about in a different thread. I've been more jealousish lately for some reason. Anyway, got to get my head straight. I'm thinking about dumping her to work on myself some. I told her yesterday that i didn't love her like i thought I did, that i had said it too early and i dont think i actually love her. She said she still loved me and was alright with the fact that I'm not in love with her. We're still together. Any thoughts? Maybe i'm just writing my thoughts down
 
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Yeah, i think what Ease and some of you others is true. I was being dumb/ insecure. Whatever moving on. I'll remeber this situation and act differently next time. This girl really loves me and there is really no chance of her breaking up with me as i usually am very confident/ dominant/ not being jealous in the least. She is not a slut and actually would never cheat on me in our current situation. I guess i just don't like it that she looking for that type of attention from guys.
I think its rooted in the fact that she's really good friends with two of my really good friends, like texting them all the time, which i talked about in a different thread. I've been more jealousish lately for some reason. Anyway, got to get my head straight. I'm thinking about dumping her to work on myself some. I told her yesterday that i didn't love her like i thought I did, that i had said it too early and i dont think i actually love her. She said she still loved me and was alright with the fact that I'm not in love with her/ didn't want to break up. I told her i wanted to stay together. Any thoughts? Maybe i'm just writing my thoughts down
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Hey i read the whole thread but near the end i think you just got a bit repetitive. I think you need to just calm down and relax because you keep saying the same stuff over and over again in your posts.
 
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