having an affair with a married girl

[Tiguere]

she is 28 im 26. we met through a mutual friend in a nightclub. (SHE WA STHE ONE WHO MADE THE MOVE ON ME)

im single and shes been married for 5 years now. she has no kids.

we met in late july and its about to be late october and i still havent had sex with her.

her time schedule is tight and very understandable. the busier she is the less i have to deal with her.

we gone to the movies 2 times and dinner once. all 3 times she had to be home by 10pm because her husband gets home from work at midnight.

im trying to throw the motel word around but dont want to be so blunt. i dont want to make it seem that im desperate to hit it. but its already been close to 3 months with no sex just making out and it usually happens in a public place or in her jeep.

how can i ask her to hang out in a motel (because there im definitely getting some action.)

i just want to know for sure she aint an attention *****.

replies appreciated.

 

[Rhoto]

she is 28 im 26. we met through a mutual friend in a nightclub. (SHE WA STHE ONE WHO MADE THE MOVE ON ME)

im single and shes been married for 5 years now. she has no kids.

we met in late july and its about to be late october and i still havent had sex with her.

her time schedule is tight and very understandable. the busier she is the less i have to deal with her.

we gone to the movies 2 times and dinner once. all 3 times she had to be home by 10pm because her husband gets home from work at midnight.

im trying to throw the motel word around but dont want to be so blunt. i dont want to make it seem that im desperate to hit it. but its already been close to 3 months with no sex just making out and it usually happens in a public place or in her jeep.

how can i ask her to hang out in a motel (because there im definitely getting some action.)

i just want to know for sure she aint an attention *****.

replies appreciated.

Why are you trying to fck another man's wife?

 

[prairiedog24]

I hope this is a troll.

Going after married women is stupid. You're only going to cause problems for everyone involved. Go game some single girls, there are plenty and you're wasting the good gaming years of your life going after something that is only going to f*** you up.

Time is precious, don't waste it.

 

[trent81]

Okay,

I want you to listen to me.

I did this same thing, but mine had two kids. DO NOT DO THIS. You may develop feelings for her. She may never leave him. You also may get killed. YOU SHOULD NOT BE OUT IN PUBLIC WITH A MARRIED WOMAN. She will sleep with you in a short amount of time. But you are playing with fire. You can get killed for this. I wish I never did this. I am still in love with her. But I don't see her. She stopped talking to me COMPLETELY. She will disappear one day. If it's just about sex, doesn't sound like it though, than it's one and done. NO DATES. If this is what you decide to do then just say I have a room for us tonight, come by so and so..... But don't do it man, it's a heartache or an ass kicking waiting to happen.

 

[trent81]

I hope this is a troll.

Going after married women is stupid. You're only going to cause problems for everyone involved. Go game some single girls, there are plenty and you're wasting the good gaming years of your life going after something that is only going to f*** you up.

Time is precious, don't waste it.

This is so true, it's been a ayear and I still think she will contact me one day. False hopes. It has affected my other relationships. I wasted a YEAR of my life on a married woman. Now I have to also be careful no matter where I go as long as I live in the same city. This guy is correct, do not do this. I know it's hard but NEVER develop feelings for her.

 

[trent81]

This is almost identical to my situation. PM me if you have any questions. I went through the SAME exact thing, only difference is she had kids.