"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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having alot of issues and setbacks.

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I thought i was doing better i got this mindset and all. All these women are ignoring me i tell them about my car accident and not working at the moment. What do i do how do i get these women to hangout its not working?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Peaks&Valleys

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Solid 300th post.

"You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to thelonewolflegend again."
 
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Look im not here to play games or act like children im here to better my social situation. I need some assistance from the adults here who got 100 ****s and i need to know what to do to get the females attention online. And have them come over and not care bout my leg.
 

Greasy Pig

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You really need to become a dateable man.
That means taking some time out to improve yourself.
Forget bytches for a while and get a job (or a better-paying job), get fit, join a sporting club, move out of your mother's place, get a car and some new clothes.
It's a long hard road but from what I can tell, you're clearly not in a position to be more successful at dating.
If you take care of yourself, learn some solid game and practise, there's virtually no way you can fail.
You're just not coming from a position of strength at the moment and it's obviously getting you down. But YOU have the power to change that.
But you have to fully commit to change and prepare to do it for a long time.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Ok well live on my own got real estate job i just got in car accident which ruunes my leg. This should not b a reason to not meet women sounds. Bull****
 

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You haven't given any specifics so how do you expect anyone to help?

Talk about your history. Have you had any success with women and what happened with them? What do you think is going wrong?
 
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Too much to talk about. I was crazed obsessed AFC for 5+ years which was pathetic. I had a life changing switcharound when I met this girl after my last GF who was playing mind games with me to the max and thats how I stumbled onto these forums. I have been soaking so much of this info in for the past year and a half and I had a bad car accident in May. Internalized all this and in a better mindstate because of it. Trying to do my own thing I got like 15 numbers half of them trying to make into dates next week. What I think is going wrong is I dont know how to act cool and makes girls laugh all of the time and make them want to see me nonstop and be addicted to me and want to do things for me etc.... I need help on what to say to get them to take me out or come to my house as well as accept my foot injury I have for the time.
 
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I finally got internet working at my house fixed my computer thats how I can type and understand better. I was on my phone the whole time trying to type these messages and its hard when you have big thumbs you know?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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sylvester the cat

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Because you ask for advice, get given advice and then proceed to ignore the advice.
 
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I wad an afc. I now talk to multiple women try to sleep with anyone i can keep dominent frame be persisant how have i not taken advice?
 

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Start by thinking about your sentence structure, punctuation and spelling. It doesn't need to be perfect, but it can be a lot better. If you notice a mistake head for the delete/backspace key located in the top right of a standard keyboard. It's a bit longer than the majority of other keys. That button will delete the last letter you typed so you can retry. You can use the arrow keys to move the cursor to other spots if you notice a mistake. Backspace will delete the letter to the left cursor. The cursor looks like a longer version of this: |
 

sylvester the cat

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thelonewolflegend said:
I wad an afc. I now talk to multiple women try to sleep with anyone i can keep dominent frame be persisant how have i not taken advice?
have you read the dj bible in its entirety?
 

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thelonewolflegend said:
I wad an afc. I now talk to multiple women try to sleep with anyone i can keep dominent frame be persisant how have i not taken advice?
How many women have you slept with?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I have slept with 6 women so far and i do have partial aspergers yes. I was in 2 long term relationships being saf sick puppy dog was beta.
 

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Stop dwelling on your leg man, ok you got into a car accident and it messed up your leg, I'm sorry to hear about it, but you most not make everything it about that.
When you go out in public, wear long pants, no one will know.
You need to stop the self pity and get yourself out of that mindset of being a victim. We all have problems.
 
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So dont mention it to women? How do i get them to come over and intetested to get together without flake??
 
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