having a whor-e as your girlfriend

[donking]

Having banged chicks usually on dates 1-4, I'm quite amused by this chick who keeps me waiting. She's already bought me a $150 jacket within a week after I decided to try out the "relationship" after 6-7 "dates". LOL will see where this goes. She kept asking if I was a "bad guy".

Jaylan, currently in Boston. Last chick here also only had 1 bf and 1 bj/no-penetration ONS but turned out to be a big attention ho. Treated me not bad cooking and stuff but had guy friends texting her late at night and had to eject. Granted these are kind of weird chicks with PhDs making like 80-100k.

It's nice to feel your # is finally > ur girl's # even if she undercounted by like 2-3 guys. Any girl who initially claims to have been with 4 guys = 10-15. I'm looking for a girl to tell me she's been with 1 or 2 which usually means 4-5.

 

[Jaylan]

^Good luck finding women who will tell you theyve only been with 1 or 2 men. Highly unrealistic in a big metro city like Boston. I grew up in NY and most boys and girls (re: almost all) had 2 partners by 18 years old.

Yes, women enjoy sex. But that's hardly a reason to wife up a wh0re. Women who put out easily are good for banging. But they are not good for relationships. Men have known this since the beginning of time.

Like someone else said earlier, all women have put out easily at one time or another. Doesnt make a chick a ho for doing so. Wh0re is subjective and you need more data than just numbers. Thats how dudes get hoodwinked into thinking a lowish to average number chick is automatically relationship quality.

Like I said, guys need to make up their mind. With how quickly most dudes push for sex, its gonna be rare to find a chick who doesnt put out within 5 dates and also has a low number.

 

[Bokanovsky]

Like someone else said earlier, all women have put out easily at one time or another. Doesnt make a chick a ho for doing so.

If she does so consistently, then yes, she's a ho (by definition). A woman's quality deteriorates with every additional partner she acquires. With every new c0ck, she gets a little more emotionally damaged. That's not to say that all women with a low c0ck count are high quality. But all else being equal, the higher the count, the lower the quality. Consider the used car analogy. Some used cars are more reliable than some brand new cars. But as a general rule, the higher the mileage, the less reliable a car is going to be.

 

[donking]

I don't mind banging chicks with 5+ and have done so previously, but I won't ever consider them for a relationship ever again haha.

You can generally tell after 4-5 dates whether you have a ho or not. Girls generally give off hints as long as you play cool. Give it a month and you can gauge where she goes. If you bang a chick on the first couple dates, you probably ended up with a ho. Bro, I've done the ho's. The chicks I've met recently didn't grow up here. They later they come, the less ho'ish they are. These chicks were "shocked" by my ~5 "relationships". I didn't tell them the side action.

That said, pretty much all chicks could ho it up for the right guy. Just do ur best job to screen before u put it in. Once it's in, catch feelings bro.

 

[goldengoose]

Keep her around and when she fu*ks up let her go. Have other women you available to you as well. shouldn'r be too difficult to manage.

 

[b305d]

twice i met girls where i was number 45. one was 21, the other 25. both had issues.

15 partners at 21 suggests some serious self-hatred going on with that chick where sex is used for a temporary hit much like a junkie uses drugs. sooner or later she's going to need a different 'hit' to get her high much like the junkie.

also when someone hates themselves to the degree where they use sex to make themselves feel better you can guarantee that hatred will be projected onto anyone who is unfortunate to date them. as groucho marx said - 'any club that has me as a member can't be worth belonging to' or something like that. take cover and run.

Is it really that high if it was a white girl?

I always thought that every sorority chick must at least have 20+ after being at a few frat parties.

I could never figured out what's wrong with this girl to make her behave in such a way.

Good family upbringing. Didn't get abused as a child.

Yet, this girl cheats on almost every single one of her bf.

When I ask why, her reply, "Because I was a child".

These ex-bf didn't neglect and not give her attention.

Self-hatred? She's got some self-esteem issue about her weight. Like almost every girl.

She didn't wh0re herself out to just alphas either, but to the low-quality beta orbiters.

She said she did those stupid things because she was lonely. Bull****.

I think this girl almost sees every guy she ****s as a notch on her belt, the way guys do.

Once I asked her, "What if you have a daughter?"
"Would you be ok with your daughter ****ing all those guys?"

Her response,"Let her learn those life lessons on her own."

This girl has some serious issues and it's nothing to do with sexual desire.

I could never figure out the real cause.

I once knew an escort that has been with 1000+ guys and I would always wonder what goes through their mind during sex.

 

[foreverAFC]

these numbers mean nothing guys, i knew girls who would hang out at frathouses and get fcked ever single night who would insist they were virgins, most women arent going to tell you the truth anyway

 

[foreverAFC]

also i noticed someone made a thread about bill maher recently which reminds me, he was dating karrine "superhead" steffans, a woman who has made a career out of being a c um receptacle, now do you think bill was worrying about if she was relationship material or do you think he was too busy sitting back and doing coke while getting sucked off all day night ?

 

[Jaylan]

these numbers mean nothing guys, i knew girls who would hang out at frathouses and get fcked ever single night who would insist they were virgins, most women arent going to tell you the truth anyway

Hmmm...in college the girls I knew didnt really hide their sexual exploits. Many were pretty open and unashamed of what they did. I didnt give a damn about their personal lives and just did my own thing too.

While a fair number of the greek life folks were much into partying and sleeping around, I knew some who were in stable relationships despite being in a fraternity or sorority. Sometimes they dated fellow greek life people, and sometimes they didnt. I was surprised that a decent number of greek life people and jock folks werent sleeping around that much.

Either way, Im wondering how many guys on this website actually have had active relationship or sex lives throughout their life...because many seem to have wildly unrealistic expectations of a womans past. If they have lived and dated enough, they should know just how rare it is to find a woman to have under 5 partners after the age of 25.

But like you said, why expect a woman you just want to bang to be relationship material?

 

[rascal99v]

Define the definition of a wh0re.

Some of you guys have a distorted view about women. Maybe from a lack of experience or not knowing the facts. The fact of the matter is, more girls are having sex at a younger age than ever before. So, by the time they are 25 they are going to have more partners. The average number of partners used to be 4. Now with the hook up culture and social media brainwashing these chicks, they are banging more dudes.

Hot women are going to have more men, even ugly ones will if a dude is willing to bang them. I know this fat chick who had 4 boyfriends in the time I knew her. I even read a UK article where they claim the average numbers of partners for a 21 year old girl is 9. Believe that one or not, more chicks today have hooked up at least once with another guy and are in more relationships. If you think you're going to find a 25 year old chick with only 1 or 2 dudes, then you better start looking for your needle in the haystack. The only way you are going to have a chick with low numbers is if you have a religious girl who follows her faith, an obese or ugly chick, or unless you are still in high school.

The number of partners shouldn't really even concern you anyway. When a chick is single in college she is going to be fvcking dudes. That is a given. What you should be looking at is not the number of partners, but how the chick conducts herself in an actual relationship. If the chick is being respectful, faithful, and is being a model girlfriend, then that is what should be of your concern. Nothing else.

I know chicks who fvcked around while single and were great girlfriends. I also know other chicks who had less partners who cheated on their boyfriends. Who would you rather have?

Some dude might call a chick a wh0re for fvcking 7 guys. What's funny is that he isn't calling another chick a wh0re for fvcking 7 guys who were her boyfriends. What should it matter? The fact is, both chicks fvcked 7 dudes in their lifetime. Shouldn't they both be wh0res according to you? Just because one of the chicks decided to commit to a relationship later on doesn't dismiss the fact that she hooked up with those dudes before the relationship came about.

And so what if she decided to slap a "relationship title" on it? 7 guys is 7 guys that she has fvcked in her lifetime. So one chick is a wh0re for having 7 hook ups, but the other isn't for having 7 failed relationships?

That is being very hypocritical. :yes:

The rule of thumb that I go by is to keep the chicks for fvcking just for fvcking. Look for the model girlfriend to be in a relationship with even though she will have had other dudes before you. :yes:

Don't dismiss a chick and call her a wh0re unless she proves herself as a wh0re to you.

Who the fvck cares what most women are doing?

:crazy:

If most of them have a higher number count, then you have a limited pool of fuglies to choose from with a lower number count. Don't you care to get a woman with a lower number count? If most women are having a higher number of partners, how are you going to get one with a lower number?

You guys are encouraging a mindset of settling instead of striving for the exceptional.

Obviously, you haven't read a damn thing that I said. I said in very plain English writing to "keep the chicks for fvcking just for fvcking and to look for the model girlfriend to be in a relationship with". How the fvck is that settling? :crackup:

Therefore a man is stacking the deck in his favor by choosing a woman with a low partner count.

Yes, but there are less and less women around with lower numbers today. Why can't you guys understand that?

And you will never know her exact number count anyway, unless she tells you the truth , so why should it matter to you what her numbers are as long as she is being a great girlfriend?

She could tell you, she only slept with 3 guys when it was really 8. How the hell would you know? You wouldn't know any better. Then you would go around thinking you have a chick with a low number count. LOL

Chicks will always lower the number of men they slept with so they don't look like a wh0re to the men they actually like. So, if they are telling you a false number, then you will never know the real number. So, what you are seeing at "the exceptional" girlfriend is just an illusion.

You have the wrong mindset because you are willing to believe anything that she says is true. That's a dangerous thing to do, because chicks can always lie.

You think that just because a woman has a lower number partner count that she is going to be an awesome girlfriend? :crackup:

If you bothered to read the rest my post (without just quoting my first paragraph) you would know that I said, I know chicks who had lower number counts but who cheated on their boyfriends. So, what good are they having a low number count when they are cheating on their boyfriends?

The number of partners doesn't necessarily matter, it's how the chick is acting in the relationship is what matters. :yes:

Go out and get some experience so you know this stuff

 

[JoeMarron]

If she does so consistently, then yes, she's a ho (by definition). A woman's quality deteriorates with every additional partner she acquires. With every new c0ck, she gets a little more emotionally damaged. That's not to say that all women with a low c0ck count are high quality. But all else being equal, the higher the count, the lower the quality. Consider the used car analogy. Some used cars are more reliable than some brand new cars. But as a general rule, the higher the mileage, the less reliable a car is going to be.

I don't think it can be explained any simpler than that.

Either way, Im wondering how many guys on this website actually have had active relationship or sex lives throughout their life...because many seem to have wildly unrealistic expectations of a womans past. If they have lived and dated enough, they should know just how rare it is to find a woman to have under 5 partners after the age of 25.

Some of you guys have a distorted view about women. Maybe from a lack of experience or not knowing the facts. The fact of the matter is, more girls are having sex at a younger age than ever before. So, by the time they are 25 they are going to have more partners. The average number of partners used to be 4. Now with the hook up culture and social media brainwashing these chicks, they are banging more dudes.

Who the fvck cares what most women are doing? You guys are encouraging a mindset of settling instead of striving for the exceptional. If a man is looking for a girlfriend, he's most likely planning on spending a lot of time with her. If the relationship works out for a long time then maybe he'll even consider marrying her or having children with her. If a man is going to invest that much time into a relationship then he needs to make sure the deck is stacked in his favor as much as possible. Every little thing counts and it doesn't matter how rare these traits are or what most women are doing. Some may settle for one but no man on earth wants an average woman as a wife or the mother of his kids, he wants an exceptional one. Surely we can all agree that a virgin or a chick with few previous partners is MORE LIKELY to be a good wife and mother than a chick with 15 previous partners. Therefore a man is stacking the deck in his favor by choosing a woman with a low partner count.

 

[Pardner]

Hello.

I was wondering if you found girl you really liked, one with whom you had a lot in common, good sex, respectful etc etc but you knew she was a damn who-re before she met you because she used to bang many dudes, had threesomes, ONS etc... would you make her your girlfriend and think about a future together? or you would never do that because she was a slut?

does she spit or swallow? lol

 

[Bible_Belt]

All of my girlfriends have been wh0res. My first gf was a virgin when we met, but she was still a wh0re, based upon all the things I was able to do to her. Being a wh0re is a state of mind, not a specific number of sex partners. Any virgin who is mad at daddy is a wh0re of the future.

Women are for fvcking. And wh0res are better at it because they have had plenty of practice. You might think that your wife or gf is the Virgin Mary, but deep down she just wants to be your wh0re.

 

[sylvester the cat]

Been flirting with this girl at work. Wasn't entirely convinced until today when I noticed the tongue piercing . When I asked if she had tattoos and she said yes that sealed the deal for me. You know what tongue piercings and tattoos mean don't you gents? Total and utter whoore! Oh yeah baby !

 

[Bokanovsky]

There are studies which show the effect of partner count on ability to commit on the part of women.

Such studies show that h0rs make poor housewives, as most any man should be able to surmise despite the shaming mechanisms used in an attempt to control such men.

It's amazing that some people (i.e. Gaylan) would question something that has been obvious to men for literally thousands of years. The brainwashing efforts are really paying off, it seems.

 

[JoeMarron]

If most of them have a higher number count, then you have a limited pool of fuglies to choose from with a lower number count. Don't you care to get a woman with a lower number count? If most women are having a higher number of partners, how are you going to get one with a lower number?

The same thing can be said for overweight women. Most women are overweight so how are you going to get a fit chick? You screen for them until you find one. Obviously its easier to screen for a fit chick than a chick with low partners however.

Obviously, you haven't read a damn thing that I said. I said in very plain English writing to "keep the chicks for fvcking just for fvcking and to look for the model girlfriend to be in a relationship with". How the fvck is that settling?

You and I have a different definition of what settling is. You've made it perfectly clear that you think that it doesn't matter how many partners a woman has had as long as she's treating you right. Choosing the less ideal choice is the definition of settling and a woman with a high partner count is the less ideal choice. If a woman hung out with drug dealers every night you would think twice about being in a relationship with her regardless of how well she treats you. Men need to consider every green and red flag when it comes to relationships.

Yes, but there are less and less women around with lower numbers today. Why can't you guys understand that?

There are less and less women around who isn't overweight. Why can't you guys understand that and settle for an overweight chick? This is the logic you're advocating.

You think that just because a woman has a lower number partner count that she is going to be an awesome girlfriend?

Said no one ever. It means that they'll be more likely to be an awesome girlfriend. Once again, it's all about stacking the deck in your favor.

The number of partners doesn't necessarily matter, it's how the chick is acting in the relationship is what matters.

A chick can be treating you like a King and still fvcking other dudes. Men need to look at more than that. Picking chicks with low partner counts stacks the deck in your favor.

Chicks will always lower the number of men they slept with so they don't look like a wh0re to the men they actually like. So, if they are telling you a false number, then you will never know the real number. So, what you are seeing at "the exceptional" girlfriend is just an illusion.

You have the wrong mindset because you are willing to believe anything that she says is true. That's a dangerous thing to do, because chicks can always lie.

Sure a chick can lie to you but sometimes they won't. Some chicks take pride in it like one of the other posters in this thread illustrated. It's up to the man to use his common sense and intuition to estimate how many dudes a chick has been with. I'm sure you've been with women that you can easily tell whether they're doing a ton of sleeping around or not.

There are studies which show the effect of partner count on ability to commit on the part of women.

Such studies show that h0rs make poor housewives, as most any man should be able to surmise despite the shaming mechanisms used in an attempt to control such men.

A fantastic chart representing the numbers resides here.

Science confirms that low partner count chicks are better for relationships yet dudes still want to claim that it doesn't matter or isn't worth considering. If you guys want to settle then that's fine, just know that a higher standard is out there should you decide to change your mind.

 

[Jaylan]

It's amazing that some people (i.e. Gaylan) would question something that has been obvious to men for literally thousands of years. The brainwashing efforts are really paying off, it seems.

Yeah, because we all know women don't lie, especially during study surveys.

you guys really put women with a low number on up on a hi pedestal, especially considering how much drama and lies they also tell. I know guys who have been lied to about low numbers and even virginity... so why wouldn't these women lie to surveyors?

You guys need to wake up. These good girl low number chicks aren't the reality you think they are. Ok Chokanovsky? (no question what you're choking on.....) You have to screen a woman on many factors. The reason men get fooled so easily is that they stupidly think low number means quality (and that number is many times a lie). Just remember that women are better liars and cheaters than men, they know how to keep that stuff hidden.

Good luck finding that truly low number woman though in this day and age. Just look at the true average number of partners everyone has. And really, if a relationship isn't the goal of many of you here, why obsess over numbers?

 

[Bokanovsky]

The reason men get fooled so easily is that they stupidly think low number means quality (and that number is many times a lie). Just remember that women are better liars and cheaters than men, they know how to keep that stuff hidden.

Just because you can't read women doesn't mean that every woman is master of deception. From my professional experience, most women are actually pretty lousy liars. That's why nearly all scam artists are men.

And really, if a relationship isn't the goal of many of you here, why obsess over numbers?

Because the title of this thread is "Having a whor-e as your girlfriend", Gaylan.

 

[VikingKing]

Hello.

I was wondering if you found girl you really liked, one with whom you had a lot in common, good sex, respectful etc etc but you knew she was a damn who-re before she met you because she used to bang many dudes, had threesomes, ONS etc... would you make her your girlfriend and think about a future together? or you would never do that because she was a slut?

I would never commit myself to a slvt. She sounds like a slvt.

 

[rascal99v]

Some of you guys are under this illusion that you're going to find this super hot chick who is a 9 that has only 1 or 2 dudes she's banged in her lifetime. With this mentality, you would have better odds of finding a unicorn or winning the Mega Millions and Power Ball Lottery on consecutive nights.

Of course every guy wants to have a chick with a low number count. Who doesn't? But the way things are today, that reality is becoming less and less as it was before. More women are having more relationships today. So, that means more partners. Women are also hooking up more. That adds more partners as well. There is online dating where women can add more partners. More guys are able to game chicks better. Chicks are being brainwashed by social media. All that factors into more partners.

Some of you think you can sit there and determine the exact number of partners she had. That is wishful thinking. That is a waste of time because you will never know how many dudes she's actually fvcked.

I've known chicks who looked sweet and innocent who turned out to be wh0res. I've known chicks who looked like wh0res who turned out to be good women. The point is, that you will never know exactly how many dudes a woman has fvcked. Estimated guesses are still wrong and your estimates can be off. Just because a chick might have a low number count, that doesn't mean that she is a good person that will be the ideal girl to be in a relationship with. Look for a chick and screen for one who doesn't have a bunch of red flags, treats you with respect, and who is the model girlfriend. That's all you should be looking for, because you will never know her exact number unless she tells you the truth.

The same thing can be said for overweight women. Most women are overweight so how are you going to get a fit chick? You screen for them until you find one. Obviously its easier to screen for a fit chick than a chick with low partners however.

You screen for fit chicks? Can't you tell that they aren't fat right off the bat? :crackup:

You can't screen a chick either fit or fat for the number of partners they had. You will never know how many they had unless they tell you the truth. Why can't you understand that?

If you think you can screen a woman and know the exact number of partners she has, then I have some beach front property in the middle of Arizona to sell you. :yes:

You and I have a different definition of what settling is. You've made it perfectly clear that you think that it doesn't matter how many partners a woman has had as long as she's treating you right. Choosing the less ideal choice is the definition of settling and a woman with a high partner count is the less ideal choice. If a woman hung out with drug dealers every night you would think twice about being in a relationship with her regardless of how well she treats you.

Yes, you are right. It doesn't matter how many partners because you will never know how many partners she actually has. You will never know how many men she slept with anyway. So, how will you know what her exact number count is? You won't. :yes:

Drug dealers LOL. Dude, that is completely different than from what I'm saying. If the chick is hanging around unsavory characters, then you should avoid her. That should be obvious. But thinking you will know the exact number of dudes a chick has slept with is just plain stupid. :yes:

You should quit worrying about trying to screen for the number of partners and enjoy yourself by fvcking hot chicks until you find one worth investing in. You will be way better off.

There are less and less women around who isn't overweight. Why can't you guys understand that and settle for an overweight chick? This is the logic you're advocating.

WTF are you talking about? Who in their right mind would settle for a fat chick? I never said anything about settling for an overweight chick.

I said if you want a chick that you automatically know who will have low numbers, then that will be an obese chick. Then, I also said women who are religious who follow their faith, and if you are still in High School. Those are the only types of women who will still have low numbers. The rest of the women you will never know.

Even overweight chicks will have desperate dudes wanting to bang them. So, their numbers will be up too. Hot chicks will be even higher. Get with the program. You took everything I said out of context, adding your own spin to it.

Said no one ever. It means that they'll be more likely to be an awesome girlfriend. Once again, it's all about stacking the deck in your favor.

This comment proves that you have zero experience with women. I know women who had low number counts who were terrible women. They lied, cheated, manipulated their boyfriends. You can't just base awesome girlfriends on low number counts. Sh1tty women are sh1tty women regardless of how many men they had. How can you stack the deck when you have no clue of the number of men she's fvcked?

A chick can be treating you like a King and still fvcking other dudes. Men need to look at more than that. Picking chicks with low partner counts stacks the deck in your favor.

Yeah, that could happen but then again, it might not. If she is treating you like a king, she respects you enough not to be fvcking around behind your back. That's the model girlfriend you want, regardless of the numbers you might think she has. :yes:

You have this crazy idea about having a low number count and you use that for your argument. If you don't know the exact number count, how are you stacking the deck? You won't even know what you're stacking.

The chicks with the low number count can fvck other dudes behind their boyfriends back. I've fvcked chicks behind their boyfriend's backs who said they had a low number count. I know chicks who said they had low number counts who were b1tches and were sh1tty to their boyfriends. What good are they?

You will never know the exact number anyway. So, unless you know her to be sleeping around a lot, you can never screen for an exact number for a chick that you don't know.

Sure a chick can lie to you but sometimes they won't. Some chicks take pride in it like one of the other posters in this thread illustrated. I'm sure you've been with women that you can easily tell whether they're doing a ton of sleeping around or not.

Yeah, that's why I just use them for fvcking and don't invest anything more into them. You will most likely never know her exact number, so it's a waste of time trying to sit there and guess.

I've seen chicks who look sweet and innocent who act like wh0res in the bedroom and to find out that they had a high number count after all. 5 guys become 7 and then they forget how many they told you. It's a waste of time trying to find out the exact number, because you will never know.

Unless you are trying to wife these chicks up then you shouldn't care. If you're not serious about the relationship and not investing much into it, then it doesn't really matter. If you don't like how she is acting then get rid of her. Men who can attract women have no problems getting new women.

You shouldn't be concerned with relationships now anyway. Acquire plates you can bang and use your time to get yourself ahead in life. Then later on you can attend to screening women who are worthy of being in a LTR with. Right now you should be having fun, enjoying as many women as you can, and not taking women seriously.

rascal,

You don't need to know her exact number, and you certainly should not ask. Nor is there anything wrong with fvking sluts, after all, that is exactly what they are for! But for making a slut your girlfriend? There are a lot of leading indicators you can use to filter out the high probability sluts, and you don't need to know what their number is to know that she still crossed the tolerance threshold.

Having said that, if you don't think there are "slut tells", then quite frankly you do not have enough experience with women.

Your entire argument rests on the premise "They are all slutty and it's too hard to tell the difference".

Danger,

Again, you take what I said out of context and add your own words to it.

I said you use the sluts for fvcking and screen for the model girlfriend to be in a relatonship with.

A girlfriend is just a title that really doesn't mean anything anyway. She is a chick available that you can fvck. Technically you can call all your plates girlfriends if you want. Can't you? Do they really mean anything to you? Not me. So, you're telling me that you wouldn't fvck a hot chick silly for 2 months straight and just let her think she's your girlfriend and let her go even though she is a slut?

Titles mean nothing until the chick actually means something. So, until you find a chick that is worthy of being of your girlfriend don't invest in them too much and use them for how ever long you can.

Yes, you can tell the chicks who are obvious sluts. I said that above. Those are the chicks I use for plates. But there are chicks who don't appear as sluts, who actually are sluts. So, trying to determine their number count is a waste of time.

I never said they are all slutty and it's too hard to tell the difference. You are adding your own words to it again. I said more women today are having sex with more partners. So, if you come across a chick who you think has a low number count, she might have a higher number count.

The whole point is that you don't know how many. So, don't assume that it's low when it could be high. And don't expect to find a lot of chicks with low numbers in today's age.