"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Having a "sexy/attractive" voice

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How much do you guys think a guys voice impacts a females attraction to him? I've been told on occasion that I have a sexy voice. I know my voice is on the deep side, but I personally don't consider it sexy, makes sense I guess since I'm a guy. Anyways I've been noticing a couple things in girls when they hear my voice such as IOI type body language. For example once I was in school sitting in the lecture hall and a guy beside me asked me a question about the exam and as I was explaining it to him, a girl two rows in front of me turned around quickly with this sort of attracted smile on her face giving me eye contact, which I'm guessing had to do with what she heard. Also when calling up businesses or whatever where a girl picks up I can hear a distinct change in her voice once she hears mine. Like she'll pick up with a regular/monotone or whatever hello, and then once I start speaking and explain what I want, her voice gets softer and changes almost like her breathing has changed. (not like shes gasping or anything, but I just can't think of a better way to describe it)

So basically I just want your opinions on this, and if you're a guy thats been told you have a "sexy" voice, do you get the same sort of reactions out of girls as me?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I was blessed with a VERY deep, barotone voice. Infact I've thought its TOO deep at times, when I've heard recordings of myself. I sound almost like that dude from the commercial(the ones that say "THE ANSWERS ALWAYS NO!") where he comes to the call center and chases that fat guy around, "you're goin DOWN!", lol.
 
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FIVE MOST IMPORTANT WAYS TO ATTRACT A HOT BABE

1/ Voice - Speak loud clear powerful and deep

2/ Eye Contact - Always look the girl in the eyes

3/ Confidence - Act like a King and be the Prize

4/ Succeed in Life and Enjoy Living

5/ Positive Affirmations - Do This Every Night :yes:
 
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I too have the ultra deep voice thing going down. I sing bass and sub bass notes! At least it is something that I don't have to work on, but like anything else it is only a tool. If you do not use it then it does not matter. Use it or lose it! It's ALL GOOD! :)
 
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