Having a PEN (and a piece of paper)

[anonymousguy]

Hey!

It's an oldie but a goldie. I always carry a pen with me, because when you meet a cute girl it's easier and more "social" that you get their contact information on a piece of paper.

Why is this:
a) If you ask their number: they have to put it into their cell phone etcetera: so they are NOT communicating directly with YOU but with their cell phone !
If you have a pen and of course paper, they can write it down much faster and add their name or something. At least it's quicker and more "personal" because it's nearly like a hand-written letter
b) You DO NOT HAVE to ask for their NUMBER! Any means of communication is acceptable. Wether it is their e-mailaddress, their number (this is of course gold), their home address (even better ). At least you can contact them.

In summary:
What do you need? pen and paper
What do you want? their contact information

Greetings,
Anonymousguy

 

[syncmaster]

Yeah - it takes forever to type a name into a phone & it's a lot more slick to get her to write the info for you. Just don't let her steal the pen

 

[Good_Vibes]

I always give them a piece of paper i with some other girls info on one side.

 

[spider_007]

i hear they got perses for men now.

it might be a good idea, after all pockets get full. (pen, paper, keys, cell, wallet, comb, deodorent.....)

 

[Johnnie5]

get yourself a really nice pen in a really cool colour

one of those ones that you need to turn so you can pull it out and turn it and hand it to her

as for paper , keep your eyes out for some reallly cool business cards on counters when you are out and when you see them grab a handfull

the card and the pen both become talking points

 

[syncmaster]

Hahah - tell her she's gonna be famous one day and get her to autograph your stomach w/ her #

 

[h2o]

hey good tip

i almost always carry a pen in my pocket

as for paper, i'd actually recommend against it...have them right in on your hand, arm, whatever (though i've only tried hand/arm area myself)

not really a "technique" per se, but just something i like doing...to me it seems more personal... gets you closer, more kino, and sets up better for if you want do a kiss or hug close

 

[johnmich]

Originally posted by spider_007
i hear they got perses for men now.

it might be a good idea, after all pockets get full. (pen, paper, keys, cell, wallet, comb, deodorent.....)

Who carries a can of deoderant in their pocket ??

 

[h2o]

Originally posted by johnmich
Who carries a can of deoderant in their pocket ??

spider obviosly does, lol

 

[Good_Vibes]

Originally posted by h2o
hey good tip

i almost always carry a pen in my pocket

as for paper, i'd actually recommend against it...have them right in on your hand, arm, whatever (though i've only tried hand/arm area myself)

not really a "technique" per se, but just something i like doing...to me it seems more personal... gets you closer, more kino, and sets up better for if you want do a kiss or hug close

Good idea!!!